The Silverbloggers Chronicles Prompt #16 - Things I No Longer Worry About

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Our life is like this piece of string tied to the kite, once let alone, they learn to survive away from the crowd

Our life is like this piece of string tied to the kite, once let alone, they learn to survive away from the crowd

Its not easy to forget the past especially, when something related to the past happens in the present. To my knowledge, I always felt that I was the odd one out, both in family circle and friends circle. To make things worse, my expectations were always above the benchmark, even if I can do or not and even if I can get something ornot.

Looking back, I felt how stupid I was then.

Road to learning is very tough. One can never reach the destination in minutes. Experience is the major subject to any kind of learning. To understand this , I had to get married and have my own offspring.

Being adamant I had the habit of getting my things done, then and their. Most often not satisfied with the output. This was due to over expectation.

Soon after marriage I realized, never expect much. And in a way it was very much true. The reason why my marital life is still alive. By expecting the unexpected means we are inviting trouble by ourselves. Once you stop expecting, every day is a blue moon day. Iam happy with my children, in this regard.

Teenage was full of flaws. Being a short tempered person for no reason, I used to break down easily. But in life's lesson, years of experience, taught me how to give up. Looking back I do laugh at times. Probably because I might have pained few of them.

Today, nothing stops me to face any challenges, with a determined smile. Being in my early 50's I concentrate more on my healthy living styles leaving aside my anger, hatred, expectations etc As mentioned in the prompt article, I no longer worry avout what others think, right now I am living a life that best suits me.

As my children are away in another state for their education and job, they motivate me and my better half to move out frequently, taking time for ourselves.

Sometimes I really wonder how did I ever overcome my anger and short tempered nature. May be time helps us out, with this regard.

Once uppn a time all these was a worrying factor for my parent's, hope today they are at peace.

Thankyou for your time.

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Exactly, do what you want to do and don't worry about others

Thanks friend.... these words inspire me a lot, when I come across your article....in the last part. 😊