Family is the priority but friends are not less important

in Family & Friends2 months ago

In life, family is the most important and valuable thing for a human. The family is most important because it is made with parents, siblings, and grandparents. Parents give us unconditional love and take care of us properly and try to ensure a better future at any cost. In fact, they don't hesitate to make sacrifices for our betterment. They barely let us know about their suffering and try to fulfill our wants.

In my family, there are my parents and siblings. I have one brother and one sister and I am the elder brother of both of them. There is no doubt my parents love me a lot but my mother seems a little bit strict. I can still remember I used to be afraid whenever I made mistakes and my mother became angry for it. Punishment was compulsory in that case and that thing allowed me not to repeat a mistake for the second time. In case of punishment, my mother never considered anything, and sometimes I felt my mother didn't love me😅. Hehe, I hope in childhood times all of us think the same whenever we receive any punishment. Her strictness made me polite, disciplined, and determined for anything. When I grew up a little bit more I could understand that there was love in her strictness also. She just chooses to be strict for the betterment.

My father was a cool person and he was always very friendly with me since my childhood. He was my first childhood friend with whom I played a lot. My father used to act as a child whenever he used to spend time with me. My mother used to complain about his childish behaviors😅. I think my father made my childhood more precious. Everyone doesn't get their father as their friend from childhood. I am lucky to have found my best friend in the form of my father. He was always supportive of almost every important step of my life. He never cared about what others thought, he always stayed behind me to support me whenever I needed it. In fact, I believe that, if my father didn't support me, I would not come to the position where I am now. And my siblings make my life interesting and they are the ones who try to make me happy through their activities.

Let's talk about friends. Which is most important for me after family then it must be friends. I believe that life would be boring if there were no friends. I am not the one who makes friends easily. It's because I don't consider anyone a friend based on a couple of conversations. I am always stingy in case of making friends. Many one pretends to be friends but actually they are not and I need to ensure that they are my true or real friends. Fake friends can be harmful and I always try to stay alert from them. So in my entire life means in 25 years I made only a few friends. Maybe 7 or 8. But I can say confidently that all of them are my real and true friends. All of them will be ready to help me if I need help and I don't have any doubt about it. I think I don't need financial help from them but several times I need some mental help to boost my energy. I think I am lucky because 7 or 8 real friends is really huge and very few people can confidently say that they have 7 or 8 real friends.

Friends and family both are important and somehow I feel family is more important than friends. But it doesn't mean friendship has less value in my heart. If I need to choose only one between family and friends then I may choose my family but I will make sure that such kind of situation never appears in front of me because I never want to lose my friends.


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There is no doubt that every human being loves their family because they grow up with them from childhood. My case is different because my father is somewhat strict. 😅 While my mother loves me very much.

I am also very stingy in terms of friends as I spend most of my time in my studies and work. But still my friends support me in difficult times. Friends play a very important role in making life beautiful and happy.

Indeed my mother was strict but I assure you that a mother's strictness can't be as strict as a father's strictness. I am lucky and I was always polite and so her strictness doesn't affect me too much. But finding my father as a friend is a thing which doesn't find easily. I am lucky in this case.
I think in the case of making friends being stingy is good and it helps to find true friends.
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My father is strict when I do something wrong 😅 and that is good for me

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