Families are complicated business and sounds like yours is even more so with so many sets of parents. I guess it's difficult for your dad if your step mother doesn't like you lot, but he wants to be with her, and sadly that means he will have to make some difficult choices. However, judging by your conversations, he still enjoys the chats with you like when you were younger, that's nothing your step mom can take away from the two of you
hahaha yeah, it's really difficult sometimes dealing with plenty sets of parents. I also rarely met even almost never met someone with more than a few set of parents like mine. So, it's been difficult to find support group or even someone that actually gets it. The thing with my step mother is also complicated and everyone been telling me to just focus on my dad and just ignore her.