Nothing should be more important in the life of a human being than love, evil has been multiplied by the lack of love, and it not only refers to eros love, love of the couple, but also to integral love for our families, neighbor , friends, to the world.
It has been a challenge for me to explore organizational emotional intelligence and relate it to love, I know that we all consider love as that emotion that we feel, however it is much more than that, love is described in the scriptures as follows:
1 Corinthians 13 King James Version (RVR1960)
The preeminence of love
13 If I spoke human and angelic languages, and I have no love, I become like a metal that resounds, or a cymbal that rattles.
2 And if I had prophecy, and understood all the mysteries and all science, and if I had all the faith, in such a way that I moved the mountains, and I have no love, I am nothing.
3 And if I distributed all my goods to feed the poor, and if I gave my body to be burned, and I have no love, it is useless to me.
4 Love is suffering, it is kind; love is not envious, love is not boastful, it is not puffed up;
5 does nothing wrong, does not seek his own, is not irritated, does not hold a grudge;
6 you do not enjoy injustice, but you enjoy the truth.
7 He suffers everything, he believes everything, he hopes for everything, he endures everything.
8 Love never ceases to be; But the prophecies will end, and tongues will cease, and science will end.
13 And now faith, hope and love remain, these three; But the greatest of these is love.
The human being was created to love and be loved, that's why in our natural interior when we feel that something is wrong, we adopt emotional behaviors such as hatred, rancor, sadness or even depression.
One of the most difficult dynamics that I have done in my emotional intelligence workshops is to put the group to tell a colleague that they love him and why he loves him, it is impressive how many turns we make just to say to someone "I love you" This is not the divine nature, because the commandments are based on love of God and love of neighbor.
I have struggled with problems in the emotions in my beginnings, however, understanding why we are here, that we are loved by the one who created us and that everything translates into what we can give as human beings, this led me to be emotionally intelligent, knowing that there is a root for success and that is: love.
Having earthly knowledge is a virtue, but being emotionally intelligent and developing it with the word of life is the maximum, this opens the doors for us wherever we come, it is simply amazing, constant practice makes you discern situations in which you can help others. people, it is that empathy with others, that divine instinct from which no one can escape.
Another thing I discovered is that we will never be able to help someone without having gone through these pain processes and having overcome them. A while ago I came to a place with a team of many people, the first thing I did was to use that emotional intelligence for each one Of these, soon the environment was developed by positive, empathetic people and an excellent organizational climate.
Where did I learn it from?
Jesus was an emotionally intelligent being, he came to earth to form a revolution in the life of man, but that revolution was internal, he shook the hearts of the people putting themselves in their place, sharing their pain, their brokenness and giving him a word of truth. and from life, he fed the people, performed miracles and treated them with love, because Jesus knew what the heart of man was made of.
All bitterness, deviation from behaviors and patterns that we see as abnormal have an origin: and it is the lack of love, the world needs love.
Loving makes us walk without carags, in peace knowing that God cares for us, we will not fear bad news, because we have been perfected in love.
The fact that you have been through an emotional breakdown, or a job, does not mean that you can not continue giving love, love goes beyond a physical connection, it is spiritual, I know many people who as a result of a divorce are filled with Grudge, if someone shared part of their time with you and left you inheritances as children, the best decision we can make is the positive, forgive and heal, we are not perfect beings, but love covers all faults, all mistakes.
1 John 4: 7-8: “Beloved, let us love one another; because love is from God. Everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love has not known God; because God is love ”.
Always tell your friends, family how much you love them, I understand that there are people who will not receive it easily, but it is a constant task, it is a commandment and that practicing it will bear very good fruit.
Let us make our faith a way of life not a religion, let God our Lord be the one who directs our steps and then makes us instruments of blessing for those who do not know him. That people receive through us what God has prepared for them, without seeing in us this or that religion or denomination.
¡WITH LOTS OF LOVE!
Excellent message @darlenys01, love is the main weapon to combat any adversity, be it illness or any circumstances, that love always lives.
Ricci