Subjectivity of "Success"

It is very hard to feel motivated if you are still battling yourself over whether you can do it or not. The fact that you have no confidence or courage to do it because of the fear of experiencing loss and failure Moreover, one factor that can affect our determination and drive for such a goal is our senseless actions or lack of motivation for what we want to achieve. Moreover, having enough reason would be a great way to stay grounded and focused on the outcome we wanted to grasp.

In this paper, the writer wanted you to widen your perspective as well as your views on things around you. Plus, the writer wanted you to be mindful of everything that has happened to you because, at times, our human senses can be deceiving, which creates gaps and misunderstandings. The writer is simply implying that motivation comes in different forms and aspects. Such motivations don’t happen on occasions we expect them to occur or have timelines in themselves; you’ll just know they're there when they are.

"The greatest battles in life are fought by the greatest soldiers."
"If I can do it, you can too.”

These phrases aforementioned are usually considered inspirational, yet they can also be perceived as bullsh*t ones. It may be very influential and inspirational to hear these words from someone who has already achieved a higher ceiling than you because you will cling to the thought that you may achieve those things by following that mindset, but it is also very superficial in the sense that you may not have the attributes or gifts to begin with to grasp those goals. It will never be a guarantee for you to achieve those goals, even if you have done everything he or she told you. Plus, not all circumstances are the same or should have the same outcome and process. Moreover, there are these factors that revolve around it that need extra consideration and thought. A very blunt factor that one must look into is being born into the world and others who experience misfortune from the day they are born. Take note; these words are broader than they look, so let us narrow down our thinking on earthly possessions and power. What the writer is trying to say is that life is full of uncertainties and is indefinite in itself. You don’t have to trod the road that others made or be pressured by what they achieved.

Given that "success" has a subjective meaning, we have our own timelines and outcomes. Thus, the motivation we need must also come from within and not from outside. We are the creators of our goals, regardless of what led us to visualize them. Nevertheless, you are responsible for motivating and pushing yourselves to pursue these goals.

Take note that what you have achieved or failed to achieve is because of the earthly laws that revolve around us. Thus, of what you have achieved, be proud, and of what you have failed, be happy because it has brought learning and room for improvement to move forward. Don’t hesitate to learn and change yourself for the betterment of tomorrow.

Lastly, the writer is not motivating or encouraging you, but instead pointing out what you can do and what you are capable of. In addition, it is with your own oblivion that you exercise these things for yourself.
So consider this a tip.

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 9 months ago  

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You have taken us on a very powerful journey with your words. Sharing the mindset of what success means to each of us, and how we decide what success really is... very thoughtful. While I do love the energy you are spreading, I would ask you to read the guidelines of our community; you can see our most recent update on proper posting guidelines here. From this post...


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Hello @wesphilbin Thank you for your appreciation and reminder, I'll keep that in mind. Have a great day ahead 😊

Hello writer, allow me to say that one thing I've discovered is that motivation comes in waves. You can feel uninspired at times, but you can also have days when you're motivated and enthusiastic. But all you have to do is sort through those and focus on the things that could help you in the future.

That is correct @eatslance , because of the limits of our senses, we are also limited in what they can provide, but with the aid of a positive mind and determination, waves won't be a matter. 😊

Plus, not all circumstances are the same or should have the same outcome and process.

The first thing that came to my mind after this sentence was the scientific experiment. Which is based on the experience of the person you are referring to, and I must thank you for bringing this subject to light and reminding me.

Not everyone may agree with the one, or may have experiences that we can call "the dark side of the moon".

I believe that there are many thoughts that we should keep in mind throughout our lives and this is one of them. I would even say that it is one of the few that is written in bold letters. No one can see the point from the angle from which you see it. Not even you in the future or you in your past. Our experiences and the people around us have much more influence on us than we think, and frankly, I wondered about your motivation for this thought. What kind of influence made you write this beautiful, mindful writing is wandering in my brain.

Yesyes. Hence, we should not live our lives based on what people see as valid or how they want to perceive us but on how we wanted to live it. Nevertheless, laws and regulations are a must to maintain order hehehe

Exactly, without laws and rules there is no order. Apart from that, the concept of morality loses its meaning.

Thank you for your support 💫

Well, I am really not that confident when we talk about morality thou because some morals are just pushed by once perspective hehehe.

Anyways, I've also read some of your outputs and I enjoyed myself reading them. Excited to read more 😁😁

Maybe because English is not my mother tongue I could not express myself fully, I agree with you about the certainty of morality. Some things are pushed to us, it is up to us to choose the "good" and "bad" of it, which is also pushed to us.

Thank you so much 🤗 I'd keep an eye on you and will 🌞

but instead pointing out what you can do and what you are capable of

Murag maka-tender man sad tag resignation sa pag-muni2x sa imong gisuwat Pat oy. Hmmmm? Mo tender na ba? HAHAHA

Hmmmm, what if pabilibon nato sila, if walay increase ron buwana kay mo pass nata sa letter? HAHAHA

Actually true motivation is the one that comes from within us and not that which comes from outside. Only you can truly motivate yourself. We most at times beat ourselves so hard anytime we don't seem to achieve certain things in life forgetting that we are victors in certain things, the formula you gave here is beautiful, when we fail we should be happy as well because we will be getting experiences that we may never get from school and if it so be that we succeed, then we should be proud of ourselves because not everyone succeeded in what we achieved

Exactly 😊

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not all circumstances are the same or should have the same outcome and process

True. Though the assurance that people can achieve their dreams could draw within you an encouraging strength to keep pressing on in achieving yours.

Always be the 1st one to congratulate yourself making it this far 😊

Indeed! 😁