Marriage is for the mature minds alone and like the wise would say, it's like a Christmas package. You never know what is inside until you unwrap it. Imagine your surprise if the excitement you had before unwrapping turns sour just cos you don't like what you see inside.
This is why marriage is not a pity party. You marry because you love and is ready to stay with the person not under obligation for a good done by you or to you. That's disaster waiting to happen because when the tides of life comes thronging, the ship may not survive the wreck.