There is a powerful quote by the late musician Bob Marley
“If you see an opportunity that suits ur friends pls link them up! The hate is less when the whole squad is winning"
I love this quote because it is so real. In a gathering of ten friends, if only 1 or 2 of them are rich or successful, there will be envy and it may lead to silent hatred among the others.
Being generous towards the 8 others that ain't successful won't solve the problem, the enmity would still be there and if care is not taken, they might start looking for the downfall of the other 2.
I have seen cases in which friends betrayed each other because of money and this is one of the reasons that could make your friends turn on you, that hurtful feelings you are doing better than them.
There is a saying, never boast about how well your children are doing in front of a barren, never flaunt your wealth in front of the poor, it is because of the pain they would feel.
We have friends that like to boast about their success to their friends if they earn a big amount of money, they will tell their friends and in the end, they won't even give the friend anything, they just want him to know they are winning, when they achieve anything great, they will run to their friends to tell them without adding any positive impact to those they are telling.
There is a difference between We win and I win, when we win, every one of us will be in a happy mood but when you win, some will be happy for you but doesn't mean they will be happy they ain't winning, it is better when everyone is winning and this is why it is good that when we have information that will help us and our friends, we should learn to share those information!
We have people who are so stingy with information, and some people are so bad that they would dispose of information that is useful for you because it is not useful to them or because they don't have the resources for the requirement involved in making use of the information.
I have a close friend who is into freelancing, she needed some others to work for her and she told me about it, I could not do what she needed but I know someone who could so I informed the guy, clicked and they started dealing together till now, I didn't hide the information from him because I could not do it or benefit from it and that is how it should be!
The joy is in when everyone can be happy in a gathering without anyone oppressing another or without others thinking one is oppressing them whereas he is just being himself.
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Earnestly, if everyone could view life in your own perspective then we will all be happy. It is a matter of helping each other to get to at top. Let's say it should be more of a support system. If you get a deal and can't work on it, help a brother who can work on it.
that is how life should be but some people would rather let it waste than give it to others who have the potentials to do it
Perfectly true. I strongly believe a lot need to read this. The aim is not for only one person to be winning but many people
that is right bro
That's why we should always carry our friends along
We should not only keep opportunities to ourselves
It is bad!
there is plenty of fishes in the ocean so we should eat and let others eat too
Yes, it's true. I will not go far and I want to tell my thoughts that whenever I hear this "I win" from another person I always feel something envious
But on the other hand "we win" has Collective celebration.
yea, the we makes more sense!
I think a true friend will do the thing according to the quote. I think between friendship we should have the mentality to grow together. So that the friendship will grow strong and everyone will remain happy.
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yea right, grow with friends and celebrate together
It very true and very normal that people behave this way, it's part of what makes us human.
It is oddly hard to celebrate your friend's progress who keeps progressing when you keep failing, if the sadness is not cultured it can lead to envy
When there is a loss then this kind of talk is done and when there is a win then no one talks like this and everyone celebrates the win with laughter.