To answer today's questions, personally i will consider loyalty, emotional maturity, and shared values matter most to me. If one is missing, I will assess how deeply it affects long-term peace. Some flaws can be managed, but not at the expense of my happiness or identity. Love should feel like home, not a battle for basic understanding.
What do you guys think?
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You are right in this and I totally agree with you
Thank for agreeing
You are welcome
You don do watin I ask you to donor you dey wait for midnight again?
Same here.
I know you will agree
Nice.
Eh
My Brother, you gat a point here..
Love should be peaceful and fun
But then some ladies of these days, many are not ready to be loyal, meanwhile, remember it should be a two way things...
Won de o... They yaf come
Guys of nowadays nko, wetin do them? Dem loyal? Anything under skirt 😂
Let me runaway before they come for me🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
Ahhh 😅
Thank God I'm not a Guy, I'm a Man
Anyways, loyalty is a two way things.
Lol...mendemn
Yoo Yoo
Oyoyo
Sorry o 😂 Man of the garden of Eden 🤣
Yeah it shouldn't be a one-sided
You dey generalize now....no be all men
Some are still decent like me
Mule! Your fellow no generalize too abi
I did not ooo
Mule DJ yk
You no say women cheat just the way men cheat?
Just that you ladies knows how to cover up perfectly
Na men no know how to cover... Dey play
Na even ladies no know how to cover cos our emotional intelligence doesn't have the capacity to nurse two men the same way but Men, Guys,Boys, Male.... Una be giran
Who tell you that one say your emotional intelligence no get capacity to do am...just dey play there oo
I'm not a player
You were dey wear jersey number 7
God bless you . It is easily noticed when a woman keeps more than a man. But you see a man having three wives with children sef, they are very smart about it that you have to be a very sneaking lady to know
Yes now....That's why they refer to them as big stomach of keeping secrets
It's a lie. Men knows how to hide secret than women
We may know how to, but it will show all over our body. Hope you know that?
It shows for woman body to if you can watch them well
Ani na lie seh
Are you arguing this with me now
Yes my bro... loyalty is a two way street, if I'm asking for it from you then be ready to get it from me. But then no matter how loyal you are to some people they will still eat your eyes. Mat we not marry nonsense
Exactly 💯
Yeah
Hmmmm see sense 😉
Emotional maturity that won't bring you emotional trauma
Gbayi omo Iya mi 😂
What is marriage without peace of mind and settled homes??
Ino want hell in earth biko
I totally agree with you o,, abeg my home no suppose turn war zone
At all..home should be peaceful..no be say you guys won't have misunderstandings ooo but you should communicate and settle it
That's right 👍
Yeah!
Thank you
This is so cool and shouldn't be compromised oo
You just hit the nail on the right spot.
Thank you..I just said my own view
Nice one.
The view make brains
Thank you
You are welcome dear
😉😊😊
The qualities you desire are pretty good. There can't be two captains In a boat, one has to be loyal to the head of the family.
Shared values are important too, so that both parties can be on the same page.
Emotional maturity, it's cool too. Does age determine the level of emotional maturity?? @goldenproject
No, age is just a number. Age can contribute to emotional maturity through life experience, but it doesn’t guarantee it...a lot of elders or lemme just say matured people are still struggling with it and when you see how self aware and intelligent some young people are you will just open your mouth down like basket of water leaf
I love your response on this. Some people are mature by age, but are immature in terms of behaviour and intelligence.
That's one of the reason why they usually say age is just a number amongst other reasons.
True. Age is only necessary when it commensurate with maturity, otherwise it's just a mere number.
You totally get it now
Alright. Do have a blessed evening.
Loyalty doesn't apply to the woman alone, it both parties ,not because you are the head or because you are a supporter in the marriage. Both have to be loyal
No doubt about that. However, the onus of loyalty rest more on the shoulders of the lady 😊.
I am not saying that the man should be so domineering but the loyalist-in-chief should be the lady.
@chefqueen
No, pls change your mindset. It's should be both. No one should be more
Hahaha. Are you serious on this??
Ekere oru eke(there are core responsibilities for everyone.)
They are core responsibility to everyone not loyalty . Loyalty is for everyone
@goldenproject what do you think, do you think I'm wrong?
Because he doesn't agree with you does not mean you are wrong. He might have what works for him, and you said yours.
You get the point?
Which one is emotional manipulation or na maturity you call am again??
Dem dey different
Okay okay. 👌
Yeah yeah
Olodo rabata😂😂
No mind am. 😂. Na olodo
That should be you right?
Yes I agree with you. Without studying these things you mentioned about a man I can't say "I do " oo
Thank for agreeing 🤗
You are on point o.
Thank you
Thank you
You're welcome ☺️
You too😁
Thanks
Yeah
Any gist for me 😁
I totally agree with you 💯
Hehehe
You agreed with my 3 points??
Lemme hear yours
Yes I do, I have written mine since morning
Ohhh!! Alright
I don't think I've seen it yet
It should be at the bottom
Alright then
Top to buttom...a lot of comments already
Yea
Omo. Na everybody you tag o.😂
I saw the tag under person post, do I kuku carry am join body
Smart man.😂
No time.😂