Growing up is one of the most natural things that happens in our life and it is a particular process that we all always are going through at every given point of time but when it is our own childhood we often think about growing up as something that we want to achieve quickly and becoming and adult is something that is definitely going to be giving us a lot more clarity in our life and also be in a much better place then what we are at that point of time.
In many ways it orphan becomes the reality as well but at the same time there are a lot of conversations that we do get a part of and there is a lot of improvement that we do make as well but at the same time when we feel that becoming adult is definitely going to be a lot more freedom for us in many ways but we actually do end up suppressing quite a lot of things when we actually grow up and that is something which happens to most of us and such a manner that we don't even realize it.
There are many things that we do suppress about and don't really want to even have a conversation about those particular aspects and their definitely Meni reasons that can be there why we are suppressing but definitely it is something that adults are definitely not going to talk about ine an Veri open manner especially about the things that matter the most and one of them is definitely going to be talking about our own fears that we carry.
Fear is definitely a big part of our life and we all are carrying them within our ownself which can be of many different things but at the same time it is much more than what we actually think it to be because it has the capability and power to influence our life much more in the way we think it to have but it is obviously going to be a particular thing that remains largely undiscussed with other people just because they think that it is a particular weakness that they carry.
However fear is definitely never going to be a weakness that we have but rather a particular natural experience that everyone goes through and it is something that is obviously going to be much more better if we are talking about it in a very open manner because the silence that we maintain around it is definitely going to be coming from the mind set that we all have grown up with because fear is obviously going to be something that people think to be hiding within their own self and pretending that they are actually stronger in the things that they are not and this whole thing does put a lot of additional pressure on us as well.
The society that we are living in is always going to be appreciating and encouraging the successful stories that we are surrounded width and ITE is obviously going Tu bi something that we are getting influenced by as well and that is why we are always going to be hiding or failures and fears quite a lot and never going to be even having two think that we should be talking about it and also giving efforts that can actually be helping us to improve our condition on that particular aspect.
We should actually be putting in more efforts to develop our strength towards mitigating the power of fear that it has on US, and one of the best things that we can be doing is to be actually involved in conversations where we are talking about it, because it is going to gain a lot more authenticity rather than suppressing it. After all, people can definitely give us advice in order to overcome it, and also, it makes us feel that we are not alone as well, and at the same time, it also gives us a bit of confidence to deal with it.
One of the first things that we should be trying to stop doing is obviously going to be pretending that everything is going in the best possible manner when we are actually carrying some sort of baggage with us which can be the fear that we have in us as well which is something that we should be trying to be authentic with the people that we trust and sharing our fears can definitely bi make us feel a lot more better and talking about them can surely we giving us a lot more strength and that is something which we need to realise and also be that person for someone else as well to be listening and letting them feel that comfort.
Ever since that we have grown up we actually avoid a lot of conversations and it is something that we should be talking more openly about and one of the things that tops in that particular list is obviously going to be our fears and the things that we are afraid of and it is obviously going to be one of those particular things that almost every single person is nevar going to be trying to have and open conversation about but at the same time it requires a lot more attention from our end in a way that is going to be making us feel better and also having and authentic effort towards overcoming it and managing it in the best possible manner rather than treating it as a particular weakness that we carry which in reality it is not.
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Growing up happens whether we want it or not, whether we are ready for what cokes with growing up or not it just has to happen.