Hey Dave! First I want to thank you for making time to read me and give such a well thought reply. Unfortunately a lot of the trauma and bad attachment style we get from our childhood. We can't change our parents or get back in time to fix it. I also dealt with a lot of issues in my childhood and I can confirm that it just reflected in my relationships. But I have realized that once we change the way we interact with our parents, good or bad, the dynamics in the other relationships changed as well. The issue is that we are attracted to the wrong partners because they trigger the same pain our parents caused us, therefore we want to heal, over and over again. Once we make peace with it and change our pattern, we will no longer feel attracted by the same type of people because we have changed. We have healed.
Your idea to write a book about this is brilliant! I encourage you to start even if you'll write a couple of sentences per day. I think that a lot of people would love to read your story!
Have a great week!
!ENGAGE 20