Also this post totally increased my fear of kids and labor

I can understand that - but one tip - do all the prep work you can - some of it might be weird - just in case :)

Can you please elaborate? (I'm not preganant if that's what it sounded like xD)

There are stretching exercises that I will call "intimate" that can be done to help prepare - but like all exercise, they have to be done to be effective :) You can google further...

Ahhh xD good to know. Makes sense :D