And then those women, old and bitter, crazy and cat-loving double down and say that they just didn't give in to carnal desires enough! That men are even more at fault. How dare men ignore them (and all the yucky men should go away and die)
I even have 70 year old women (who most would consider a unicorn, except for looks) who still wants a man in her life who comes with money-bags. She hasn't set her sites any lower than when she used to turn all the heads.
And this lady actually works on her emotional baggage and understanding herself.
I am unsure if men can find intimacy with a long term partner. Sure i have seen it, but i have seen many more men getting devastated when their wives throw them to the curb.
The only thing i can think of is getting a decent girl and taking her out to a farm where she really has to rely on your for food and safety. (yes this has been tried and doesn't work more than half the time, but i have seen many happy family homesteaders.)