Fear is a feeling every human has but the difference is that some people control their fear while others let their fear control them.. We are in a world that our survival depends on our actions... Our success depends on our decision, move and steps we take but some people are still at the same position because they let their fear control them, they refuse to take that risky step.... Why do we fear???????????
Fear applies in many aspect of our lives, i fear being helpless when my family needs help, ofcourse i can walk in the midst of the evil ones alone with less fear but if i am with a loved one, i fear he will be devoured and i will be able to do nothing, you know that kinda fear of losing the person you love right in front of you without you being able to do anything, it is the worst thing that can happen to anyone.. There are many reasons that contribute to fear and here they are:
Lack of self-confidence
- There was a time i hate competing with people, i stayed away from competition for a very long time until one day i decided to participate in one, ofcourse i lost and i felt so terrible but i figured out one thing, it was not the competition i hate but the fear of losing that made me stay away... Any one with such mindset will remain stagnant in life because there are races we need to run to achieve our goals, we can't always win, but whenever we lose, we gain more knowledge that may help us in our next trial...
Low self-esteem
- This is one of the challenges of people in their youthful age, especially at school, working place and so many other public gatherings, some people are so scared of unleashing their potential due to the fear of not getting it or caring too much about what people say, they will rather not do it for fear that people will mock them if they didn't do it right and this way some people have failed to discover their true potential and skills because they keep hiding it and never try to nurture it to be able to get better at it.._
Fear of the unknown
- Humans are prone to fear what they don't know, this is why many don't take risk because they don't know what is at the end of it, As long as we let our fear control us, we will remain stagnant in life, it reminds me of my hive journey, i obtained a loan of 700 hive power to join a trail, i was scared that i may not be able to pay back the loan, i was scared i won't be able to sell my hive and use the money to feed but still i went ahead with it caring less about any other things and it worked out perfectly fine! i was able to pay the loan before the actual date and was able to earn more! life is too short to worry about the unknown, live the moment, take the right step and whatever happens, face it!
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great answer brother.. nice to see you put so much thought into it..
im going to write this and pin it on my wall!
thanks
@burlarj
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wish you same in advance sailor
This is so true! Inferiority complex is another factor you know, Im so guilt of this...
hope you can finally get rid of it and be the strong lady you are meant to be.... thanks
Someday, very soon 🙂 thank you