I really appreciate the effort of @eco-alex for giving us the opportunity to share our thoughts once more on the topic been dropped about fear, it is really nice and kind and I appreciate it to be also part of the @ecotrain family, it's awesome been here.
Fear is one thing as human we surely will experience but it depends on the area it's occur. In the aspect of taking actions fear do come or set in which always divide the mind into two whether the action you are about to take is right or wrong.
What do we fear?
As humans there are so many things we do fear when embarking or wants to embark on a journey that requires results.
Fear of blame
This is part of what develops fear in human because nobody wants to receive blame for any particular action they take. It has occurred that we live in a world where we are entitled to our own opinion in one way or the other but in the aspect of making decisions matters a lot because not everyone can handle things themselves without the advice of other people in their decision making and this is where fear comes in because they rather believe taking other people's decision is the best solution to their problem to eradicate the idea of receiving blame from their own actions or steps.
The truth of the matter is that such people don't realize that no one will live their life for them but only them have the final say to move forward with their own actions but taking advice is also appropriate from others, still some people are not still bold to do that with the act of sharing their problem which is also an act of fear.
The act of not bold to confront others
Some people fall in this aspect with the act of not been bold to confront others because they don't know what they might encounter or hear from the person they would meet and sometimes this occurs with some people not ready for any interview because of lack of fear with the aspect of not knowing what they might ask them.
Another thing is some are afraid of sharing their problems to others when they know what they are facing is beyond them, they can't still take that move because they might be thinking that the person they are going to meet may mock or laugh them. The truth is nobody is perfect and we all do learn everyday to correct our mistakes.
Decision making
Some people don't have the courage to make or take personal decision making which is definitely a result of fear, they believe that others can do it for them and they rely mostly on people's steps but failed to know that they still have responsibilities that requires their own decision making whether they like it or not. Everyone wants to be boss own their own but when one is not bold and courageous to take action it will really affect him in one way or the other and will definitely lack respect from others and this results to fear not able to confront others and you want to be a leader is not possible.
A leader leads by example and to follow that positive path fear need to be eradicated to earn respect from others.
Why do we Fear?
Lack of believing in oneself
This is one area that those who fear in taking actions fall in because they don't believe in themselves and it is really a major problem. This same people are those that can't take risk when they see an opportunity but they believe embarking on that rough journey is a risk but doesn't know that the road towards success is rough and tough and requires risky decision to survive at the end.
The act of not putting oneself in the right path due to fear
In making decisions Sometimes, some people fail to follow their mind instead they would ignore because they don't want to face the reality of the decision they make whether is positive or negative and this results occur because of fear and not having confidence in oneself which is a big issue.
As humans, there are times when we are confronted with some difficult decisions or situations and it is important to be "clearheaded" and follow your decision-making to move forward to boost confidence and determination.
In the process of deriving or engaging yourself in the habit of making decisions, Once you engage yourself in an internal dialogue with yourself to figure it out, the solution to it may start to show up and everything may seem clear to handle with fear not coming closer at all because the mind is already determined to conquer that.
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