Circumstance Or Self Induced: How Do We Generally Lose People?

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In life, we lose people, most especially for reasons we cannot explain. It generally feels saddening when we try to understand why people would choose to kill a thing or a bond we share with them especially when it means so much to us. In this video I talked about the inevitability of losing some people we know and have become attached to, if it's circumstance caused or self-induced. I also talked about how we should handle the sadness of trying to retrieve a bond or build a closeness again if it's been severed or broken.


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Honestly it can be so annoying why some people tend to forget the memory they've once shared with their love once.

I have a school mate whom i loved soich back then and his friendship with me change a whole lot of things about me. But ever since he has relocated to US to study he seems to have forgotten the good memories we have shared while i still remember mine even though it over a decade now.

Some times i do wonder if this person reason the same way i do? But i still strongly believe we will meet one day.


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Some times i do wonder if this person reason the same way i do? But i still strongly believe we will meet one day.

Stunning comment, truth is, they're still the same person, it is only that you understand the essense of loyalty and trust irrespective of change and time and they do not. I can basically relate with your story, it's painful. Some people are not just what we expected them to be.

Some people are not just what we expected them to be.

You are truly right. I just hope he still have a little iota of memories we have shared in mind because it over a decade but yet I can hardly forget

there can be a lot of reason like death or they just don't think your worth their time cause in a today lives time is what people lack cause of worldly desires

In whatever reason its either self induced by them or it's just the circumstances in their lives.

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I have so many friends that I gradually lost contact with and the main reason was that I was always the one holding onto them and when I let go, the friendship stopped.

That's absolutely self induced. The truth is, these people may not hold us valuable in any place in their life, but since we're the ones finding a reason to stay. Then they obviously have no choice. If we decide to go, they don't fight for us. It's absolutely pathetic but we learn from it.

Very true, I have learned so much from it.

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