Social media for example, is a charade of pretense.
This is the exact reason I am not active on Social Media. People say one thing on socials and do another in real life. It's pathetic. Plus I simply can't stand the hypocrisy.
This is why I believe encouraging people to altruistically change by themselves is the best kind of action.
Humans genuinely change only when it is internally driven. When external factors impact a change in a person, there is a high tendency that when the external factor seizes to exist or reduces in impact, they go back to business as usual.
Interesting and timely post @josediccus