In the last few weeks, I have often read news about suicide cases, suicides committed by individuals or suicides carried out by a family.I would not be surprised if these suicides were committed by people who were not religious, did not believe in existence and did not believe in the existence of heaven and hell. But what makes me surprised is that most cases of suicide are committed by religious people, who believe in the existence of heaven and hell, believe that suicide is a big sin that is unforgivable and the perpetrator will not be punished, but will go straight to hell (Islamic version according to my beliefs).
I have always believed that any religion invites its followers to do good deeds, to bring peace to the universe, no religion orders destruction, except for certain individuals who use the name of religion and order their followers to do destruction on earth. Religion makes humans have guidelines and guidelines for life, so that humans can live in peace.
So why in recent weeks have there been more and more cases of suicide, what is the cause?
1.Escape from reality
After I followed several suicide cases, the main cause that makes someone commit suicide is running away from reality.Many people who live today are unable to live according to reality, this happens because they are lulled by the beautiful dreams they see on social media. But their life in the real world is very different from their life on social media, once they experience problems and obstacles, they are unable to find solutions to various problems, in the end many choose a shortcut and end this very valuable life, by committing suicide.
2.Depression
As time goes by, life's challenges increase and the demands for life's necessities also increase. More and more people are doing reckless things and crime cases are increasing, everyone is trying to make ends meet. The needs of life today are not only limited to filling the stomach, covering the body with clothes or a vehicle for traveling, because the needs of modern humans today are the need to fulfill their desires in order to be called rich. People who are unable to fulfill their daily needs in order to be called rich, a feeling of stress and depression, makes eventually get tired of fighting and choose to end their lives by committing suicide.
3.Feelings of emptiness and feeling unneeded
People who live in modern times often feel that life is empty and not needed in this world, they do not have a life goal that suits themselves, so in the end they lose their identity and feel an empty life, without a clear life goal. . They also think that it is a waste of their lives in this world, with no purpose and no one who needs their presence, so they end up ending their precious life by committing suicide.They have a heart but it seems as if there is no life, a feeling of emptiness dominates their entire mind and soul, even worse, they also act cruelly towards other people, they hope to get rid of the feeling of emptiness within themselves, but what remains is their soul which is empty making whatever they do meaningless.
4.Give up and get tired of fighting
Someone committed suicide because he gave up on his health condition, he could no longer live with a disease that had been eating away at his body for more than 15 years, which made me wonder why he had only now given up, even though he had been fighting against his disease for 15 years. Humans are often in a dilemma, this is because thoughts often weaken our own hearts, so that we extinguish the fire of enthusiasm that is within us. We become weak and hesitate to continue the struggle, because we lose our dreams and life goals. Fatigue eats away at our spirits little by little and finally we are unable to fight again.
Life is too precious to just throw it away, if we think that life is unfair, that's how life is, there must be balance, if everyone was born as children of sultans and as rich people, then there would be no balanced and dynamic life. There will be no farmers growing wheat and rice, there will be no workers and no workers willing to work hard to get a piece of bread, because everyone will be rich, then the world will end in riots, every rich person trying to rule other rich people, what will happen? the world will end.
WHATEVER HAPPENS AND HOW DIFFICULT LIFE IS, FACE IT WITH PEACE OF HEART AND SOUL. YOU DO NOT NEED TO ACCELERATE DEATH BY SUICIDE, BECAUSE ONE DAY, EVERY LIVING WILL FEEL DEATH, PERFECT DEATH.
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Suicide is very sad, and unfortunately extremely common these days. I have been affected by the loss of friends in this way and I think feeling unneeded is a huge factor, as you said very eloquently.
Another factor I can't ignore is the unhealthy habits of the people I know who have taken their own life - most of them alcoholics or addicts in some way, I feel that if they had known a clear path to get out of their addiction, with the understanding and un-judgemental support of others, they wouldn't have felt so lost of alone.
yes, they are just lost, they need people with angelic hearts to return them to the right path @calendulacraft