..."it's not any flaw in who I am, it's just that I'm not good at playing the game...." Your husband sounds like a gem and certainly has summed you, and the situation up @riverflows. It infuriates me that the world is run by the bullies and the bullied. And there are always those nasty little bullies in all spheres of life that just feel they have a right. May the next few weeks fly by with no lingering stench from the job or bullies. Until you can fully immerse yourself in solitude with the mushrooms, chickens and your wonderful husband....oh and plenty bunches of coriander!
Oh yes, all the coriander! Thanks for your kind words. It's super hard to get through the next few weeks, so your kindness means a lot!! Yes, he's a gem alright!!! If it wasn't for him, goodness knows how I would be coping!!