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¡Hola queridas Damas de Hive! Espero que se encuentren todas muy bien. En esta nueva semana tenemos preguntas de @saffisara para participar del concurso comunitario. Me encanta formar parte de este espacio y siempre espero esas nuevas reflexiones que nos dejan. También agradezco a mi amiga @naath por la invitación.
Si pudieras tener una segunda oportunidad en algo, ¿qué sería?
Me encantaría tener una nueva oportunidad de cuidar mejor mi salud, tanto física como mental. Lo bueno es que nunca es tarde para empezar, lo malo es que no podemos volver el tiempo atrás y mejorar cosas que hoy son necesarias, como cuidar más mi vista y la salud bucal que es super importante. Siento que también debí acudir a terapia cuando el mundo se sentía muy difícil, pero en su lugar me refugie en otras actividades que también me ayudaron a su manera, aunque una cosa no debe quitar la otra. Si tuviera la oportunidad me encantaría empezar con esas consultas de manera temprana y, tal vez, algo hoy sería distinto. Pero la vida me hizo sabia, y siento que todo lo que viví hasta ahora me ayudó a forjar la persona que soy hoy, con mis victorias y fracasos. Soy fiel creyente de que todo pasa por algo, a lo mejor son lecciones que tenía que aprender o necesitaba pasar por aquellos procesos. De cualquier modo, estoy compensando esa falta ahora y eso es lo que importa. Mirar atrás se siente nostálgico, pero mirar hacia adelante te abre un mundo de posibilidades para hacer todo mejor.
¿Te sientes mayor o menor para tu edad?
La semana pasada cumplí 33 años y no me siento para nada una mujer de esa edad. A veces no dimensiono que ya hasta podría hacerme cargo de una familia, bueno, lo hago a mi manera. Pero me sigo sintiendo menor que mi edad real. Es un poco aterrador ser adulto en ocasiones, somos los únicos responsables de nuestras vidas y el estar bien o mal depende solo de nosotros. Siento que todavía no termine de madurar en cuanto a las cosas que se esperan de mí a esta edad, sin embargo, madure en muchas otras. Quizá me cueste la independencia, pero nadie en esta familia tiene tanto trabajo espiritual encima como yo que estoy constantemente instruyéndome y creciendo en esa área, tanto que hasta no siento el cambio por ser tan sutil, pero sé que está allí y si miro para atrás me doy cuenta de todo lo que crecí aunque no lo perciba a simple vista. Estoy segura que un día de estos, cuando menos me lo espere, me daré cuenta de cuánto crecí y quizá vaya a tono con la edad que tenga en ese entonces.
Por lo pronto, la gente de mi alrededor siempre tiende a pensar que tengo menos edad, el otro día una vecina me dijo que pensó que tenía 21 años. El día de mi cumpleaños mi propio hermano pensó que cumplía 29. Realmente tengo una dismorfia de edad terrible, un poco siento que es porque no sigo los patrones de vestimenta y aspectos que debería tener una mujer de 33. Y siempre me dicen que soy muy dulce y tierna, eso colabora a que me perciban más pequeña de lo que soy y creo que estoy tan acostumbrada a eso que adopte esa personalidad más aniñada en apariencia sin quererlo. A veces intento cambiarlo, pero me hace sentir incómoda, como que no va con mi personalidad. Lo que vale es como nos sentimos por dentro y a decir verdad, mi alma se siente mucho más vieja que lo que diga mi edad, pero mi apariencia y mi actitud ante la vida es de alguien menor, tengo que aprender a equilibrar estas dos caras de la misma moneda.
Bueno amigos, hasta acá mi opinión acerca de estos temas. Espero que les haya gustado y los invitó a participar también a todos los que me lean.
Gracias por llegar hasta acá y apoyar mi contenido.
¡Hasta la próxima!
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Hello, dear Ladies of Hive! I hope you are all doing well. This week, we have questions from @saffisara to participate in the community contest. I love being part of this space and always look forward to the new insights you share with us. I would also like to thank my friend @naath for the invitation.
If you could get a second chance at something, what would it be?
I would love to have a new opportunity to take better care of my health, both physical and mental. The good thing is that it's never too late to start, the bad thing is that we can't turn back time and improve things that are necessary today, such as taking better care of my eyesight and oral health, which is super important. I feel like I should have also gone to therapy when the world felt very difficult, but instead I took refuge in other activities that also helped me in their own way, although one thing should not take away from the other. If I had the opportunity, I would love to start those consultations early on, and maybe something would be different today. But life has made me wise, and I feel that everything I've experienced so far has helped shape the person I am today, with my victories and failures. I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, perhaps they are lessons I had to learn or I needed to go through those processes. Either way, I am making up for that lack now, and that is what matters. Looking back feels nostalgic, but looking forward opens up a world of possibilities to do everything better.
Do you feel older or younger for your age?
Last week I turned 33, and I don't feel like a woman of that age at all. Sometimes I don't realize that I could already take care of a family, well, I do it my way. But I still feel younger than my actual age. It's a little scary to be an adult sometimes; we are solely responsible for our lives, and whether we are doing well or poorly depends only on us. I feel like I haven't fully matured in terms of the things that are expected of me at this age, yet I have matured in many other ways. Maybe it costs me my independence, but no one in this family has as much spiritual work to do as I do. I'm constantly learning and growing in that area, so much so that I don't even feel the change because it's so subtle, but I know it's there, and when I look back, I realize how much I've grown, even if I don't perceive it at first glance. I'm sure that one of these days, when I least expect it, I'll realize how much I've grown, and maybe it will be in line with my age at that time.
For now, people around me always tend to think I'm younger than I am. The other day, a neighbor told me she thought I was 21. On my birthday, my own brother thought I was turning 29. I really have terrible age dysmorphia. I feel like it's partly because I don't follow the dress code and appearance standards that a 33-year-old woman should have. People always tell me that I'm very sweet and tender, which contributes to them perceiving me as younger than I am. I think I'm so used to it that I've unintentionally adopted a more childish personality. Sometimes I try to change it, but it makes me feel uncomfortable, like it doesn't fit my personality. What matters is how we feel inside, and to tell you the truth, my soul feels much older than my age, but my appearance and attitude toward life are those of someone younger. I have to learn to balance these two sides of the same coin.
Well, friends, that's my opinion on these topics. I hope you liked it, and I invite all of you who read this to participate as well.
Thank you for reading and supporting my content.
See you next time!
Que bella mi amiga, tanto por dentro como por fuera 🥹🧡. Me alegra que estés pensando en cuidar más de ti, nadie mejor que tú sabrá cuáles son las decisiones que hay que tomar para sentirte mejor. Con respecto a lo de la edad concuerdo más con tu vecina que con tu hermano jaja 🧡. Un abrazo grande amiga!!
Gracias amiga linda 😍. Sí, a veces nos olvidamos de uno por cuidar de los demás, y es tanto o más importante priorizarnos en ese sentido.
jajaja en realidad soy una vampireza (?
Otro abrazo para ti 🤗
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I’m 21, too haha. Kidding aside, I remember that they also thought I was just 16 years old because of my young features. But in reality, I’m 21 years old. Yes, it’s not too late to start. If I had enough money, I would really spend on a healthy lifestyle.
I'm sure it's better to look younger than older, hahaha. It's never too late to start; the time is now.
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Even though it's nostalgic to think that things could have been different, the important thing is, as you say, that it's never too late to start over, as well as to feel good about your own personality, and that's what you reflect because it's very valuable. Have a nice afternoon,
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It's true, it's never too late to start and do better this time. The important thing is to feel good and be happy with who we are.
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