Hello @goodysam. You were the perfect "Ada" for your family. It's nice to be given responsibilities when you're younger. I understand some parents go a bit further and expect the eldest child to grow up too quickly with the burdens. However, not being allowed to express your feelings, especially when hurt, can become an emotional obstacle in your adult life.
Parents do what they feel are best and work with the knowledge and traditions they know. It sounds like you were the perfect match for your siblings. You have a beautiful family. You all look so content to be in each other's presence. What a blessing.
It's often that children don't really understand until they are an adult how their childhood helped to shape the person they are.
You are a shining example of how responsibility enhanced your life.
Thanks for sharing your story. Have a good weekend.
Thanks so much for your thoughtful words and support it means a lot.
However it has it effects but I still manage.