The Real Friendship in Women | LOH Contest #127

in Ladies of Hive11 months ago

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After a few weeks away from this female community, I have returned with several opinions that in the last few weeks have been on my mind. To feel support is a blessing in these days, where everyone is on their own, where we live in a world full of anxiety and where the situation is getting more and more intense, especially in memezuela. In my life I have had many friends, but the vast majority of them have gone their way without looking back, something that does not bother me too much, but it is something I do not forget. Therefore, the friendships I have left are the most sincere I have ever had.

Después de unas semanitas perdidas de esta comunidad femenina, he regresado con varias opiniones que en las últimas semanas han rondado en mi cabeza. Sentir apoyo es una bendición en estos días, donde cada quien está por su lado, donde vivimos en un mundo lleno de mucha ansiedad y donde la situación está cada vez más intensa, especialmente en memezuela. En mi vida he tenido muchas amigas, pero la gran mayoría de ellas han seguido su camino sin mirar atrás, cosa que la verdad no me molesta demasiado, pero si es algo que no olvido. Por lo tanto, las amistades que me quedan son las más sinceras que he tenido.


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Helping and supporting will always be in my nature, I feel it is something fundamental in a friendship and also, with people who deserve it. I am very selective, that means that I keep in touch with my friends and with women who are part of my social circle, but who do not necessarily belong to my friendships. Also, I like everything to be reciprocal, so if I notice that they are not being in the same way with me, I usually walk away or take some distance. And when I meet new people I am always very attentive, I like them to feel that warmth and they can tell me anything, because I like to be there.

With my female friends, the most important ones in my life, which are about 4, I am always there for them, my favorite way is to write to my friends, since we don't see each other very often, and when we can see each other, listening to them in their problems and giving them support or solutions whenever I can. Also, supporting each other, for example right now I am at home with one of my best friends, since she doesn't have internet and I offered to help her with it, specifically to help her rejoin Hive and make everything easier for her. For me it's not an obligation to do it, it's something that I'm born to do, that I'm used to and that I absolutely love, because you can feel the commitment between our friendship.

Ayudar y apoyar siempre estará en mi naturaleza, siento que es algo fundamental en una amistad y también, con personas que se lo merecen. Yo soy muy selectiva, eso quiere decir que mantengo el contacto con mis amigas y con las mujeres que son de mí círculo social, pero que no necesariamente pertenecen a mis amistades. Además, me gusta que todo sea recíproco, por lo que, si noto que no están siendo de la misma manera conmigo, suelo alejarme o tomar distancia un poco. Y cuando conozco nuevas personas siempre soy muy atenta, me gusta que sientan esa calidez y que puedan contarme lo que sea, ya que me gusta estar ahí.

Con mis amigas mujeres, las más importantes de mi vida, las cuales son unas 4, siempre estoy ahí para ellas, mi manera favorita es escribirles a mis amigas, puesto que no nos vemos muy seguido, y cuando nos podemos ver, escuchándolas en sus problemas y brindándoles apoyo o soluciones siempre que pueda. Además, apoyarnos mutuamente, por ejemplo en estos momentos me encuentro en mi casa con una de mis mejores amigas, ya que no tiene internet y yo me ofrecí a ayudarla con ello, específicamente para que se reincorporara a Hive y todo se le haga de una manera más fácil. Para mí no es una obligación hacerlo, es algo que me nace, de lo cual estoy acostumbrada y que me encanta totalmente, porque se siente el compromiso entre nuestra amistad.


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I know that when we talk about "keeping in touch with other women" we speak in a general way, but I have to be honest. Sometimes between women we attack each other too much, at least, I tend to always be on the defensive, since I have been hurt by other women in the past. And don't get me wrong, I love having female friends, but there are times when our worst enemies are women themselves, which I don't understand why it happens. That's why I worry about my closest people, I know that not all of us are having a good time, in different areas of life and the best thing is to be there, being unconditional, I hope you loved to know my opinions on this topic, see you soon!

Sé que, cuando hablamos de "mantener contacto con otras mujeres" hablamos de manera general, pero les tengo que ser honesta. A veces entre mujeres nos atacamos demasiado, por lo menos, yo siempre suelo estar a la defensiva, puesto que he sido dañada por otras mujeres en el pasado. Y no me malentiendan, me encanta tener amigas mujeres, pero hay veces donde nuestras peores enemigas, son las mismas mujeres, lo cual no entiendo por qué pasa. Es por ello que me preocupo por mis personas más cercanas, sé que no todos la estamos pasando bien, en distintos ámbitos de la vida y lo mejor es estar ahí, siendo incondicional. ¡Espero que les haya encantado saber mis opiniones sobre este tema, nos leemos pronto!


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Supporting each other through a message of phone call is like dropping in to check all is alright, even when friends live in another city, are not able to see each other in personal visits helps keep contact.

Different point of view, best to speak out when under attack, we all have days when someone misinterprets us. It hurts when you learn through others, not given the courtesy to resolve, always think before one speaks puts burdens on relationships.

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