I am so sorry for that young girl who lost her life due to trauma. My mom always told me to never trust a nanny without any family supervision. I grew up with a nanny but my mom/grandma were present. It's like one of my baseline these days if I were to like hire a nanny in the future.
Have you looked into more working from home options?
This days it's hard to entrust babies into others care.
Yeah, maybe it would work if there is family supervision
I haven't look for wfh yet, maybe next year