Seriously...I also think that they are part of the cause of what they call abomination, that is, a girl living with a boy and having children without being married to him! What can they do where there's so much high expectations?
Indeed there needs to be a rethink!
But from the look of things and the faces I'm seeing lol 😂, I don't think this people are ready to hear what we think about the traditions 🙃
You just raised a point...ladies Nowadays leaving Witham man who hasn't paid her dowry...only if the list is reasonable but know, our elders don't want to review