For this week @LadiesofHive - Contest # 194, the questions are:
1οΈβ£ What is a big risk to take in life for you at this moment in time, and what is the least risk you feel around you?
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2οΈβ£ How do you feel when alone answering your thoughts? Possibly you shared things in the past with your mother, grandmother, or sister β someone now no longer with you β do you turn to them asking what would they say if they were with you today? Please share those inner thoughts and fears you carry in your heart.
I am going to answer the second question about my thoughts, because this is a very touchy topic for me.
First of all I wish I could share my thoughts. I find it so difficult to express my thoughts to known people. I can listen to everyone and I do that regularly but I can never share my own thoughts and feelings, not even to my closest people. If there is any turbulence going on in my mind, it stays with me. That's a different thing that by now my hubby and son understand that there is something wrong with me because my body language changes and then they coax me to share it with them and by now I have also learned to dodge them...hehe. On my own I can never share.
This is my one weakness and grey area of life. I do not like to share my feelings and thoughts with anyone. I would like to keep them to myself. May be I fear of showing my vulnerable side to people. It's not that I do not accept it, I do that but I cannot share it and sometimes I become a victim of my own thoughts. I know it's always better to share and I preach that also all the time, because by sharing you release some burden from your heart and it also gives you a different perspective with other peoples advice.
There is an other side also to this, when in the situation I do not like to share but when I am out of the situation then I do not mind sharing it. Then it is like a story for me to narrate. For me if there is anything I want to share, there are only 2 people in my life who I trust the most and that's my hubby and son, so I only do it with them, specially my son, it is very easy to talk to him and he listens to me without making any judgements so I am very much comfortable sharing it with him.
The real thing is that I am a loner and I enjoying being that way.
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Sometimes it's better to keep our thoughts in private. Maybe there are things we could not share to anyone and afraid that in the end they will talk back what we said and spread to others.
It depends up to what extent we want to share our thoughts with another person
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Sometimes I just don't see the purpose of sharing. Narrating a story of the past is better as it doesn't complicate things. !PIZZA
It depends on how we look at it, sometimes the burdens of the past are too heavy and we keep carrying them in such a case sharing them will make it easy for us
!LADY
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I share with my mum most of the time and always share in prayers to my father.
That's nice to know my dear
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Many times we put on a shield so that others cannot see beyond our appearance, this protects us but from time to time we have to let go of so many thoughts and feelings, talking about them is the healthiest thing.
I'm glad you have a lot of trust in your family, it's a blessing. A pleasure to read you, hugs and blessings.
True, it is the healthiest thing and makes life simpler
I donβt like to share my feelings or thoughts with people too but it is not advisable
There are times when you need to speak up!
!LADY
It lightens up the heart when we speak to someone and makes us feel lighter
I wonder at times if it was how we were raised by our parents, we were taught to keep family matters within the home and never discuss your life at school, work it was private.
Fortunately I have a sister and son both of whom I rely on when battling mental games, body talk many don't even notice!
!LUV
!LADY
Possibly, it's got to do with our upbringing, and for me it was like no one to share and talk to in childhood, which now has become a habit for me
Being aware of what you share is not a bad habit to keep. Have a lovely day.
I share my thoughts to my my husband and mother ma'am.π
That's wonderful
Being a loner myself, I completely understand the comfort of keeping thoughts private dear !BEER !WINE
Thank you
Always well dear !PIZZA
Sharing thoughts often makes one feel vulnerable but a problem shared or rather a thought shared is a problem solved :)
Half the problem is resolved when we let it out from within us.
Yes, basically