Ladies of Hive Community Contest #170 - Keeping in Control

[nainaztengra]

This week @LadiesofHive - Contest #170 questions are:
1️⃣ What actions do you recommend to keep control in difficult moments?
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2️⃣ In which aspects of your life you are grateful for not being 100% in control?

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When it comes to my family I am an extremely emotional person, specially when it is anything that concerns my hubby and son. And both of these man know about it. When my son was small, I would make all decisions for him driven by emotions more than being a rational parent, and as you all know that all actions coming out of emotions are not always right and may not be healthy also. There were times when I would also not listen to my hubby and act irrationally. When I look back at my parenting journey, I always feel that good that my hubby did take some tough stands with me on me taking decisions for my son. So I always feel that if things were just with me 100% to raise my Son then probably I would have made some wrong decisions. Hubby had a super hectic job in those days and most of the decision making regarding my son was with me, but he would always keep a check on me and intervene when it was necessary.

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With me not having a very pleasant childhood, I was over sensitive with my Son, and always desired best for him. I would over pamper him and fulfill all his wishes on his one word. We all know such type of parenting can be extremely dangerous for children. Thankfully hubby would always pull my strings and keep me in control. In that time, I would get very annoyed with him and also fight with him. But today, I feel that it was good that he kept my parenting style in control and that I was not in 100% control of it.

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I think in difficult moments it is important to stay balanced and not get carried away with the adversities of life. Some actions that I would recommend is that talk to people around you who can help you in overcoming your challenges. Do not shy off to take help. Address your problems rather then running away from them. Keep calm as much as possible, because get tensed or hyper about the situation will make matters worst. A calm and peaceful mind will help come up with solutions for the problems of life.

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[thekittygirl]

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[latinowinner]

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[ahlawat]

You are doing absolutely right but everyone should be heard and your decision should be expressed only after thinking.

[charinakim]

Yes, I also feel what it's like to be a mother of a son. Sometimes we will feel emotional facing it and we really need the people closest to us, especially our partner, to always support us and be a place to express our thoughts so that we don't face it alone and at the wrong way. What are the problems for us as mothers and also how should we act or the solution to it all.

I hope you can face it better and be patient, everything will take time and effort. The most important thing is that we want to try and do our best :)

[biyimi]

Sometimes when I actually remembered how my childhood days actually goes, I will really wish I can have more pleasant childhood days

[rafzat]

I love the fact that your parenting style is not like you having 100% control. It can be very tiring especially for the child.
Good parenting matters a lot which you are doing!

[coloringiship]

I used to be extremely emotional too when the kids were little. However over the years, I've made significant efforts to heal my inner self and overcoming childhood trauma and detrimental patterns from my upbringing. Growing in self-awareness has empowered me to refrain from impulsive reactions driven by emotions in my parenting journey. Thank you for sharing your story 🙏

[takhar]

I think that's a great way of balancing your emotional side with his rational side when it came to raising your Son. Parenting can be demanding and some decisions should be handled delicately. Keeping calm in all situations is the best advice to not lose ourself in any situation :)

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[debby-cwm]

Yes, if we can stay balanced, then we won’t really be move with the circumstances surrounding us.

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[noalys]

Being able to let go of a little control during motherhood is sometimes necessary for us and even more so when we have the help of a husband and thus to be able to maintain a balance in everyday situations.