It should always be the woman's decision who is experiencing the situation.
Not all men agree with male sterilization because more than fear they feel it takes away part of their manhood, but ultimately it could also be a decision to be made as a couple or family.
I think the same as you, if one does not want to suffer, we must remove the cause of the pain because there is no worse agony than to endure the pain that is increasing little by little, of course after building a family if that is the desire.
Not being a man I will not pass comment....
Young woman who suffer normally find out through tests they are unable to have children, or it could endanger their own life attempting, again choice is up to the individual.