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Good morning ladies at Hive!
First of all I want to wish a Happy Anniversary to this sisterhood designed to get us noticed and have a voice on this platform.
Ladies of hive has become my safe space to express myself as I think, beyond participating in a weekly contest it is a community where women can support each other while respecting different points of view and criteria.
It has helped me to increase my self esteem at the beginning I was afraid to participate because I was worried about the comments of other ladies and now I understand that there is no better support than another woman, some of us share the same thinking and those who don't, let me know in a nice way.
It has also increased my security when speaking, I feel that I can express myself on any topic with any person or write any text and defend my conviction no matter what it takes following my objective.
It has taught me that all ladies can shine in life without turning off or harming each other, because each one has her own light that makes her unique.
In conclusion Ladies of Hive has changed some parts of me that I thought I would never get back after immersing myself in motherhood, I can do what I want without panicking and contribute to my physical and emotional well being.
2.- If you were the LOH judge this week, what TWO questions would you ask?
Before I ask my two questions I want to say a compliment to the moderators, I admire every question they ask, some are a little difficult to answer but it is a hard work they do reading each publication so that no lady is left without reading what I value a lot.
Here are my two questions, based on the experience I lived in my last cesarean to bring my youngest daughter into the world and in which I decided to be sterilized with only 26 years because in my family planning was only to have 2 children, I know that there are contraceptive methods but I chose the surgical method because it is irreversible and its effectiveness is 99%.
Going into context, a lady who was about to enter the operating room like me had to have a procedure to remove her entire female reproductive system due to cancer that developed from her last pregnancy just behind her baby called pregnancy cancer, I had the opportunity to talk to her doctor while she entered the operating room and he explained that they had not wanted to sterilize because she was very young and her husband wanted more children but to her surprise she did not know what awaited her later, I do not know how this lady's life is going now I hope she will reach her complete healing.
I would like to know your opinion about these difficult issues:
Do you agree with female sterilization in young women, yes or no? Justify your reasons.
AND/OR
What do you think about the medical policy that husbands should decide about their wife's body even if she doesn't agree?
Well ladies, that's all for this time, thanks for your support.
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¡Buenos días damas en Hive!
Primero que todo quiero desear un Feliz Aniversario a esta hermandad diseñada para hacernos notar y tener una voz dentro de ésta plataforma.
Ladies of hive se ha convertido en mi espacio seguro para expresarme tal y cuál como pienso, más allá de participar en un concurso semanal es una comunidad donde las mujeres podemos apoyarnos unas a las otras respetando distintos puntos de vista y criterios.
Me ha ayudado a aumentar mi autoestima al principio tenía miedo de participar porque me preocupaban los comentarios de otras damas y actualmente entiendo que no hay mejor apoyo que el otra mujer, algunas compartimos el mismo pensar y aquellas que no, lo hacen saber de manera agradable.
También ha aumentado mi seguridad al momento de hablar, siento que puedo expresarme de algún tema con cualquier persona o escribir cualquier texto y defender mi convicción cueste lo que cueste siguiendo mi objetivo.
Me ha enseñado a que todas las damas podemos brillar en la vida sin apagarnos ni dañarnos unas a las otras, porque cada una cuenta con una luz propia que las hace únicas.
En conclusión Ladies of Hive a modificado algunas partes de mi que creía no iba a poder recuperar jamás luego de sumergirme en la maternidad, puedo hacer lo que quiera sin entrar en pánico y así contribuir a mi bienestar físico y emocional.
2.- Si fueras el juez de LOH esta semana, ¿qué DOS preguntas harías?
Antes de formular mis dos preguntas quier decirle hacerle un cumplido a las moderadores, admiro cada pregunta que formulan, algunas un tanto difíciles de contestar pero es un arduo trabajo el que realizan leyendo cada publicación para que ninguna dama quedé quedé sin leer lo cuál valoró bastante.
Aquí van mis dos preguntas, basándome en la experiencia que viví en mi última cesaría para traer al mundo a mi hija menor y en el que decidí esterilizarme con tan solo 26 años porque en mi planificación familiar estaba solo tener 2 hijos se que existen los métodos anticonceptivos pero elegí el método quirúrgico porque es irreversible y su eficacia es del 99%.
Entrando en contexto, una dama que se encontraba a punto de entrar al quirófano al igual que yo debían hacerle un procedimiento para retirar todo su aparato reproductor femenino por cáncer que se desarrolló por su último embarazo justo detrás de su bebe llamado cáncer del embarazo, tuve la oportunidad de hablar con su doctor mientras ella entraba al quirófano y el me explicó que no habían querido esterilizar porque era muy joven y su esposo quería más hijos pero para su sorpresa no sabía lo que le esperaba después, no se como va la vida de ésta dama actualmente espero alcanzará su completa sanación.
Me gustaría saber su opinión acerca de éstos temas difíciles:
¿Estás de acuerdo con la esterilización femenina en mujeres jovenes? ¿Si o no? Justifica tus razones.
Y/O
¿Qué piensas de las políticas médicas en que los esposos deben decidir sobre el cuerpo de su esposa así ella no éste de acuerdo?
Bueno damas ha sido todo por esta vez, gracias por el apoyo.
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Taking control of ones own body is a priority, no one should make the decision for you, it's not theirs to make.
After two cesarean births, sterilization was the next step forward, not only sound advice from the doctor also a decision taken when the man is not willing to undergo a much smaller procedure due to being afraid of a little pain.
Some young woman suffer Dysmenorrhea experiencing severe or acute pain, a possible sign of Endometriosis observed via surgical procedure. After testing whether able to have children decide to remove entire female reproductive system to avoid this debilitating pain for many years in her young life.
Why suffer if you don't have to?
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! help(no space) to get help on Hive. InfoIt should always be the woman's decision who is experiencing the situation.
Not all men agree with male sterilization because more than fear they feel it takes away part of their manhood, but ultimately it could also be a decision to be made as a couple or family.
I think the same as you, if one does not want to suffer, we must remove the cause of the pain because there is no worse agony than to endure the pain that is increasing little by little, of course after building a family if that is the desire.
Not being a man I will not pass comment....
Young woman who suffer normally find out through tests they are unable to have children, or it could endanger their own life attempting, again choice is up to the individual.
Can you tell me the country where this medical policy is valid?
It is a consent that must be signed by your spouse or husband in the medical record at the time of undergoing a surgical intervention in Venezuela at the time of the birth of a child, in the case of the sterilization of your wife, if your partner does not agree, the procedure cannot be performed.
I know several women who have not been able to undergo sterilization because they do not have such consent.
I have answered these questions in a post. Hope you will check it out.
Nice questions !LADY
If I were in the situation, it would be fine for me to do the surgery as long as it will save my life, and as long as the baby is born normal..
It's harder for the mother's part, so I guess husband shouldn't decide to such a policy, because in the first place, it's not his body that will be affected...
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Yes it is quite a difficult situation and perhaps some of us are exempt from them because our husbands understand the situations better and choose to sign the policies in favor of the woman's decision because the important thing would be to maintain his wife's health after having her baby.
As I read the answers to the question of this week’s contest, everyone talked about how great this community is. And I am glad that it was made for women being united and empowered.
We must support each other, we are now stronger and unstoppable, we must be united to change the world.
La respuesta de la primera pregunta es que si estoy de acuerdo. Soy madre y eso no justifica que sea una obligación o discriminación a quienes no opta por querer tener hijos. Traer un bebé al mundo y que no nace ser madre, traerá sufrimiento y posible problema a futuro o quizá no. El niñ@ al llegar ser adulto, decide que quiere ser, después de tener un vacío emocional etc. Por eso si apoyo el procedimiento. Desde evitar a futuro o por tener más hijos.
La segunda pregunta. Si mi esposo debe decidir acerca de mi cuerpo. Solo será cuando mi vida está en riesgo de salud o por una condición de discapacidad intelectual. Me convierto en una mujer dependiente del cuidador juntos con los acompañamiento de los profesionales. Ahora sí se basa de abuso de poder y psicológico hasta un punto de arriesgar la vida por estética de belleza. Así no estoy de acuerdo
Wow 😂 🤗 mi respuesta fue larga pero me encanto leerte ☺️❤️💟
También leí detalladamente tus respuestas a las dos preguntas y si debemos poder elegir siendo jóvenes si queremos tener más hijos, sino queremos tener más o en su defecto tener ninguno, debemos buscar aquello que queramos como mujeres y que nos haga felices.
Si siempre debe ser respetada nuestra opinión sobre lo que queremos hacer con nuestro cuerpo y concuerdo al igual que tu que nuestros esposos deben decidir sino estamos en pleno uso de la razón.
No importa lo largo, sino expresar toda tu opinión personal.
Un abrazo🤗
¡Muchas gracias por eso! 💗
Thank you for your entry to our weekly contest! 😊
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It's totally true that's why I mention it, thank you very much to you also for reading carefully.