I was reading you and I identified myself in many aspects, in my stage when I was younger. I used to get angry when someone criticized me, I felt attacked 😲😖. Now with time, I have learned to accept criticism when it is good, that is, when it is constructive. I accept it because it helps me to improve.
But when criticism is destructive, I just let it go without worrying, because when someone attacks you with negative criticism, it has nothing to do with you, but with that same person.
In life you are always going to get these two sides of the coin. I advise you to always keep everything that adds to you and discard what subtracts or hurts you.
Remember that they say that holding resentments or being angry about what others think of you is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.
A hug.