I think he's right, Jaynie.
All that Zen stuff is well and good, and I highly encourage it as balance is the key to sanity, but never forget who and what you are ... you are a lioness. It's what some people hate about you, but most others love.
Incidentally, I've been reading through the comment threads on this post and the ones that follow ... you had an extraordinary impact on a LOT of people. That's rare.
Quill