Hi, of course, first of all, thanks for sharing.
In my opinion, well-being doesn't come from a person, man or woman, a place, or friendship, etc. But I believe it comes from a state of mind determined by the only weapon we have on this earth, and that no one can ever take away from us.
I'm talking about FREE WILL.
Only that determines our path, so let's always use it for good, ensuring a state of mind that helps us in the pursuit of our Happiness.
It's only a matter of time before we find it! Whether in this or another "world." So don't play the "Divide and Conquer" game, always talk about human beings, because both men and women, like ALL human beings, seek Happiness. We always return to the mental state (happiness), which always leads to actions we take INDIVIDUALLY (FREE WILL).
Don't make the mistake of saying that men want this, but women are like this, etc. Many want precisely these divisions, making the masses believe that someone or something is wrong, influencing the choices (FREE WILL) of the most fragile minds!
Human beings are one; sooner or later, everything will go in one direction: GOOD. When this happens (hopefully soon), the HUMAN RACE will live in peace, health, and above all, HAPPINESS.
I hope I've been thorough and that I've given you different points of view. You can follow me and read my next articles; in the next few days, VERY INTERESTING articles on Africa will be published!
Have a good start to your day!
Yes I agree that we can choose to make ourselves happy, but what if your spouse or someone decides to frustrate all your efforts in being happy by not treating you right.. what then happens?
Preshy, if you had paid attention to my long message,
you would have found the answer to your question!
Every human being, from birth, has a "secret weapon" called FREE WILL! This is the engine that drives us to make decisions (right or wrong).
Some human beings use their FREE WILL for good, others for evil.
Now, it's not clear what you're referring to specifically!
But from what I'm reading, I can guess, so I imagine two scenarios.
Disappointment in love
Violent boyfriend
In the first case, the disappointment resolves with time; surely, over the course of your life, you'll meet better or more suitable people.
In the second case, the scenario tends to be dangerous. Many factors come into play, including gender-based violence. Especially in some nations and cultures, there's a tendency "OUT OF MERE IGNORANCE" to subjugate WOMEN. This is because, from childhood, they're raised in PATRIARCHAL environments!
I could talk about this for hours, but I'll definitely write articles and videos on these topics, especially in Africa, where there's a growing belief in "magical" rituals like voodoo, used to keep entire families in check.
The Nigerian mafia is having a field day with these things.
The women who leave from there (with strange promises), perhaps of jobs, etc., after paying a lot of money, once they arrive at their destination—obviously in the Western world, perhaps Europe—will be the new sex slaves, always managed by the Nigerian mafia, established in places under the control of local mafias.
The men, on the other hand, formerly the more ignorant, but now also those with degrees, etc., perhaps even those who were in fraternities, etc., come to Europe—you know what fantastic promises (fake, of course)—once they arrive, they'll do labor work for the Nigerian mafia. That means selling drugs, etc.
To join, those already affiliated will perform a beating ritual, followed by voodoo, making all these "men" (let's call them that) believe that both the beating and the voodoo ritual will strengthen the bond and make them invincible.
Now, why all this talk? Simply to make you understand that behind EVERYTHING remains FREE WILL. If all these people had used their strength and determination to commit crime, they would have already freed AFRICA from slavery.
Instead, ignorance manipulates the WORLD, creating more and more easily manipulated people to destroy true values!
But it doesn't only happen in Africa. Imagine some Muslims—ISLAM, a religion that preaches love—and some of them blow themselves up in the name of Allah because a preacher explained to them that by attacking in this way, they will go to heaven with lots of virgins! Or like the Crusaders (Catholicism), who in the name of the Church committed similar heinous acts. All this stems from simple HUMAN IGNORANCE, which repeats itself throughout history. It all depends on Free Will, as you can see. We just need to turn on the power of our brain and use our Free Will, directed towards GOOD! By distancing "toxic" people from our lives as much as possible.
If the situation is unmanageable, use the "capuozzo" method!
If you don't know what it is: RUN AWAY!
I think I've given you a lot of detailed food for thought.
As you can see, you have a lot of material to help you make decisions and better deal with situations, at least with awareness.
And ideas for writing articles about them.
I hope this was helpful, remember to follow me, see you next time!
Hi, of course, first of all, thanks for sharing.
In my opinion, well-being doesn't come from a person, man or woman, a place, or friendship, etc. But I believe it comes from a state of mind determined by the only weapon we have on this earth, and that no one can ever take away from us.
I'm talking about FREE WILL.
Only that determines our path, so let's always use it for good, ensuring a state of mind that helps us in the pursuit of our Happiness.
It's only a matter of time before we find it! Whether in this or another "world." So don't play the "Divide and Conquer" game, always talk about human beings, because both men and women, like ALL human beings, seek Happiness. We always return to the mental state (happiness), which always leads to actions we take INDIVIDUALLY (FREE WILL).
Don't make the mistake of saying that men want this, but women are like this, etc. Many want precisely these divisions, making the masses believe that someone or something is wrong, influencing the choices (FREE WILL) of the most fragile minds!
Human beings are one; sooner or later, everything will go in one direction: GOOD. When this happens (hopefully soon), the HUMAN RACE will live in peace, health, and above all, HAPPINESS.
I hope I've been thorough and that I've given you different points of view. You can follow me and read my next articles; in the next few days, VERY INTERESTING articles on Africa will be published!
Have a good start to your day!
Yes I agree that we can choose to make ourselves happy, but what if your spouse or someone decides to frustrate all your efforts in being happy by not treating you right.. what then happens?
Preshy, if you had paid attention to my long message,
you would have found the answer to your question!
Every human being, from birth, has a "secret weapon" called FREE WILL! This is the engine that drives us to make decisions (right or wrong).
Some human beings use their FREE WILL for good, others for evil.
Now, it's not clear what you're referring to specifically!
But from what I'm reading, I can guess, so I imagine two scenarios.
In the first case, the disappointment resolves with time; surely, over the course of your life, you'll meet better or more suitable people.
In the second case, the scenario tends to be dangerous. Many factors come into play, including gender-based violence. Especially in some nations and cultures, there's a tendency "OUT OF MERE IGNORANCE" to subjugate WOMEN. This is because, from childhood, they're raised in PATRIARCHAL environments!
I could talk about this for hours, but I'll definitely write articles and videos on these topics, especially in Africa, where there's a growing belief in "magical" rituals like voodoo, used to keep entire families in check.
The Nigerian mafia is having a field day with these things.
The women who leave from there (with strange promises), perhaps of jobs, etc., after paying a lot of money, once they arrive at their destination—obviously in the Western world, perhaps Europe—will be the new sex slaves, always managed by the Nigerian mafia, established in places under the control of local mafias.
The men, on the other hand, formerly the more ignorant, but now also those with degrees, etc., perhaps even those who were in fraternities, etc., come to Europe—you know what fantastic promises (fake, of course)—once they arrive, they'll do labor work for the Nigerian mafia. That means selling drugs, etc.
To join, those already affiliated will perform a beating ritual, followed by voodoo, making all these "men" (let's call them that) believe that both the beating and the voodoo ritual will strengthen the bond and make them invincible.
Now, why all this talk? Simply to make you understand that behind EVERYTHING remains FREE WILL. If all these people had used their strength and determination to commit crime, they would have already freed AFRICA from slavery.
Instead, ignorance manipulates the WORLD, creating more and more easily manipulated people to destroy true values!
But it doesn't only happen in Africa. Imagine some Muslims—ISLAM, a religion that preaches love—and some of them blow themselves up in the name of Allah because a preacher explained to them that by attacking in this way, they will go to heaven with lots of virgins! Or like the Crusaders (Catholicism), who in the name of the Church committed similar heinous acts. All this stems from simple HUMAN IGNORANCE, which repeats itself throughout history. It all depends on Free Will, as you can see. We just need to turn on the power of our brain and use our Free Will, directed towards GOOD! By distancing "toxic" people from our lives as much as possible.
If the situation is unmanageable, use the "capuozzo" method!
If you don't know what it is: RUN AWAY!
I think I've given you a lot of detailed food for thought.
As you can see, you have a lot of material to help you make decisions and better deal with situations, at least with awareness.
And ideas for writing articles about them.
I hope this was helpful, remember to follow me, see you next time!
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