So sorry to hear that! I'm sorry I missed this post earlier. Having lost both of my parents I definitely understand what you are feeling and it's incredibly hard. I hope she will make it for next football season too. Pancreatic cancer can be very aggressive or in some people it's slow... I feel so bad for her being stuck in the hospital for a year, I see why she wants hospice, I would too. If there's anything I can do!
I am so sorry about your parents. Although it is all part of the natural progression of life it feels so tragic.
What's even scarier is now I'll probably be the next family member to go... That's life! I hope it stays away for awhile longer yet though.