Loved this one, thank you!
The thing with votes and likes and all that is a little trickier I think, as it depends a lot on people's opinion, too. Only because it gets a lot of up-votes or rewards, it doesn't have to be good quality. And that, too, can be fair, as that content creator may have had a good sense on what to say at what point, riding the trends, or whatever. Based on experience, too, in a different way.
The story you tell in the beginning is just sad. Another case of someone unable to handle their emotions. And this does not qualify as trauma, which does sometimes make people act in a way they did not intend, and not all of it is manageable. But those are extreme cases, and generally, you're right. We're responsible. We have to accept that.