Like what sort of stuff do they reach out to you about? I don't get nearly that many messages, but most of them I tend to ignore. I have a small group of friends I have gathered over the years on here that I have direct messages with on Discord. You are not one :) Not because I wouldn't, but I haven't had a reason, I do most of my conversing with you here on chain. By the way, there was a news story the other day about Finland and how it is one of the happiest place to live in the world. I didn't watch it because I had to get going.
All kinds of things, sick relatives, random undocumented charities, sick dogs.. and then there are the I posted about this you might be interested (rarely interesting to me and has nothing to do with anything I write about), or people asking me to mentor them/ support them... whatever.
I feel very left out now.
All I can say is....11% unemployment. Maybe the happy ones they asked were drunk :D
Oh, so they are typically asking for handouts. I'm glad I don't get that too much. You are welcome to reach out to me anytime you want if you can find me :). I would definitely make an exception for you.
Based on some things you have said, Finland definitely doesn't seem like the utopia I originally thought it was.