We live in a media-driven society where what others think matters a lot, so much so that many have created fictitious lives, going into debt without limit just to show their happiness and comfortable lifestyle on social media. In part, it's true that not everyone shows that they are genuinely happy or that they truly care about others; it could be because their mind never needed it or they pretend it for others.
However, it's also good to listen to what the rest of us have to say; it can serve as a way to self-critique and improve ourselves as individuals. I remember a friend with a terrible wardrobe; we all helped him change his outfit, and he never went back to his old clothes—he felt much better with the change ^^
External perception exerts undeniable pressure, leading many to construct facades of success and happiness. This quest for validation can distort authenticity and generate unsustainable cycles of consumption. The key lies in discerning between the superficiality of approval and the value of sincere feedback.
Something that undoubtedly happens, but it's unfortunate to see that this isn't taught at home. There's so much superficiality out there that it seems normal.
Of course, social interaction also offers an invaluable opportunity for introspection, as constructive criticism, offered with good intentions, can be the mirror we need to recognise areas for improvement and genuinely evolve.
Listening is never the issue, is it? It is only when people act that something becomes real. I can think terrible thoughts about murder, but it doesn't make me a murderer - it could make me an author though.
I think when people understand how to dress well for themselves, it makes a difference in their life. You don't need brands to have style.