Communication still matters.
In one of your recent posts I said that I got facebook of a hot girl and we are suppose to have coffee together. Well it seems that this was not in the cards. Few days ago I sent her a message:
Hi,... . I'd like to go on that coffee date we talked about. Do you have any plans this weekend?
She has not responded so far(?). So she is either not interested or she is playing some stupid games. But if she is not interested why could she not just say so? Why would she give me her facebook and agree to go on a coffee date at all? But if she is playing/ testing something, that is annoying and will make me lose interest. So it is a lose - lose situation. At this point it almost seems that it would be better if she said ,,thanks but I have a boyfriend'' or ,, thanks but I am not interested...''. But then I asked if she was free she did not say anything like that...I think that girls minds are most bizarre puzzle on earth. All pieces are round and none of them fit together...
Because many people don't want to hurt other's feelings directly. It is easier to ignore.
Girls are not that complicated. Most men just aren't willing to learn the patterns of behaviour :)