Greetings.
Thank you Reflection Community by @tarazkp. I try to write, everyone in running their lives must experience problems, be it family problems, economic problems and other problems. And everyone has a different way of finding solution.
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I often deal with people who tell me their problems, when I start explaining various solution to them. They don't accept them, they don't want to get out of their difficult area at all. While people who have great self- confidence, and people who try to make peace with themselves and the people around them, concentrate on seeing solution, not problems.
Like people who are fighting, they prioritize their emotions to defend their respective truths and talking about the problems they both face. They forget to solve and find solutions. People who are fighting usually prioritize their egois, and Will not solve the problem as long as they use emotions instead of using awareness and heat.
One of the characteristics of people with low self- confidence is when they are caught in a problem, they only focus on seeing the problem. Even axaggerating it. They show themselves and others that they are suffering from something that others are not suffering from.
When faced with various solutions to the problems they are facing, they reject them, or at least belittle them. Humans have different natures and physical forms,they also have different views and opinions on a problem, as well as how they accept and behave towards the problem.
I can conclude that fighting or responding to anger with anger Will actually cause new, more complicated problems and exacerbate the ongoing dispute. When we talk to other people, focus our conversation on solutions, not problems, and ask them about real solutions to these problems.
Thank you, enjoy a happy life.
April 5, 2025.