It's living. Because fear can take care of you, yes, but it can also lock you up. And what you didn't live today, may be gone tomorrow.
Life does not warn. And many times one realizes too late what he did not live, what he did not say, what he did not dare to feel. Because we procrastinate out of fear, out of habit, out of comfort. We think there is time. That there will always be a next time. But the truth is that the only thing that doesn't come back is the moment that you didn't allow yourself to live. And it's not about doing everything without thinking. It's about not being paralyzed.
Sometimes, what hurts the most is not what happened, but what we never allowed ourselves to experience.
So, if something moves you, if something touches you, if something vibrates... don't ignore it. We believe that "there will always be a next time... But if today you decide to open up, even a little, you are already starting to live differently. You are already starting to really live.
Many times we live on autopilot, crossing off earrings from an infinite list in which one does not appear oneself. And the more we fulfill, the more empty we feel.
Do you know why that happens?
Because that tiredness that we drag really is a sign of a deep emotional exhaustion for never stopping. And that's not the way it is. For this simple reason, I do not let the.someone else's opinion, be the script of my life. I've stopped running, I've started listening to myself and looking for my own balance.
If you want someone to listen to you, don't just complain... and yes, there is a lot to complain about. It's not about "toxic positivities, or being a flower eater."
We have to move, have fun, laugh, dance and sometimes take things that happen lightly; let's stop carrying it.that nothing brings us, with which it is not our responsibility, which only tires, makes noise, and damages our health and spirit.
We have to make life smoother, even make ourselves.that we don't know, nor do we have answers, and open new spaces for surprises. Because patience heals more than haste.
I tend to discern what I want, keep what is intimate, and share it.alone.von who can hold it in silence and respect. But let's not ask others to do what we know how to do first. What I'm getting at is, when you only have complaints, it's harder for the other person to connect with you. Complain and propose solutions. If you don't have them, at least show a willingness to find them.
If you just want to drain, also complain but be aware that it will be more difficult for someone to help you solve
A lot of times you have to let everything go to hell, no regrets and relax, this is not advice, it's a personal opinion.
Janitze 🌹
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Translation with |DeepL