Without distractions, it's better!...

There are processes that mature in silence.

Not everything we live needs or should be shared, especially if this occurs ahead of time. Lately I see many people who announce everything that happens to them on their networks, before taking a step or having changed they seek to “involve” their “community” ... however, there are processes that do not mature with the noise of the people who are in our environment, or in the networks. Who need silence, recollection to transform you.

And I'm not against sharing our stories, our struggles or processes, because I know they can inspire others. But I'm against us doing it early. That is, live your process, experience it with as few distractions as possible and then share it with the world.

When we want to launch an advance reflection, when we hope to have it solved without having started, we become frivolous and superficial.

Deep down we get caught up in the desire for attention and validation and we lose sight (if there ever was one) of the desire for our story to serve others for inspiration.

It happens to me too. We all lost something... some of our lives or family members, others more fortunate we lost dreams and spent our youth waiting for a change that did not come until many later. We gave up our careers also for lack of real and productive jobs... we all lost something.

In this sense, do not accept "constructive" criticism from people who have not built anything. Opinion without results is just noise. We have to surround ourselves with people who challenge us, not who slow you down. Don't accept “constructive” criticism from people who haven't built anything.

Opinion without results is just noise. Surround yourself with people who challenge you, not hold you back.

You can even learn from noise... but not all noise deserves to stay inside. This reminds me that the most important criterion is my peace, not approval.

Give the opportunity to what happens to you to touch your soul, to reach your being and then you will surely have a lot to tell. But in the meantime, stop rejecting silence.

I'm having a hard time starting over. I know some people say it's not starting over... that you're getting on with your life...

But for me, it is. You start over in a lot of ways. And they know... there are days when we are just throwing away, talking about the lifeline... without knowing very well what we are haciendo...ni if we're going in the right direction.

Has anyone been through this already How do you find your way?. If you know what you are worth, then don't accept less than what you deserve... never!.

Today is the Day of Resurrection and the Easter time, is to remember that even after the darkest days, life always finds a way to bloom.

Janitze. 🌹

Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia

Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva

Translation with |DeepL