We see faces, we don't know feelings.
We are not distinguished by our ability to calculate, nor by our ability to store information, but by the ability to feel and relate... and if we allow ourselves to fail there, the future may be very dark.
First of all, we should ask ourselves... What is infidelity?, experience has shown me that it is NOT an absolute concept, in the reality of life because there are many and so many ways to be unfaithful. I belong to the group that can forgive infidelity, because loyalty is very important to me.
The reality is that every story is different and you can not normalize something that is not right from the beginning, there is also talk of nonconformity perhaps. It's a very controversial topic, for me Jos, and it's radicalism for others. I think too many things come into play.
Now, what do you think? Is infidelity forgiven? I think so, but from momaer like that there were many factors in the couple's relationship that were not working and they were not paid attention to.
To think that when we fall in love it can't happen because falling in love makes us believe that the couple is "perfect". Each soul is intertwined with invisible threads with another, like two notes of the same melody that when dreaming together awaken the music that the world had forgotten.
We deserve a relationship where our partner loves us enough to cut everything that puts at risk what we have and what we are building together, this is a matter of VALUES and healthy boundaries. Do you know why I'm saying that? Because those who do not want to see their mistakes, failures and flaws in a relationship try to hold a very positive view of themselves and so functional to their EGO that we end up creating an armor that suffocates us. That someone would rather talk to an AI tells us more about humans than AI.
Without realizing it, we may seem less human than an AI to another person, because we are too caught up in our problems and realities, drying up and losing sight that in a world in which AI is increasingly competing with us, we are losing perspective of what defines us and differentiates us in the world.
Let's be compassionate with our own awkwardness and with the awkwardness of others, we are human and we simply love each other which is what allows each person to realize who he is, evolve and grow.
We are in a world learning to live, to create, to believe and to love, when the cracks of looking at ourselves, are the ways, the paths through which the light filters (our true consequence). Love is vertigo and delight from encounters and disagreements to adventure and surprise.
Janitze ❣️
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Translation with |DeepL