Your storytelling is always so engaging and really makes me stop and reflect on my own life experiences. I would like to share one sentence I have learned from some of relatives "ENEMIES AREN'T BORN, THEY MADE" and many of people turn into our enemies with their non-professional / non-serious acts.
Thanks for sharing such a heartfelt piece!
People think being serious means not joking at all, but that is not the case. People are not serious about their behaviours, unwilling to align what they do with what they want.