You're so right! Normal is wholly subjective and who is to say what 'normal' is? Not some stuffed shirt sitting behind a desk touting a piece of paper titled Diploma.
The further society creeps down into the sewer, the more normal degrades anyway. From the outside looking in, I'd say you are well above normal!
I don't feel "normal" from my perspective, but maybe from the outside looking in, I am doing okay. Sometimes I just wish life wasn't such a struggle, just to do "normal" things.