Since then, I am more reserved, every time I open my mouth someone feels offended…
I thought you didn't care what people thought? Just go with it - the reputation is what it is - most people don't care what people say, as long as it is open and coming from a place of honesty.
I want to meet people who show themselves as they are, without masks, not users who disguise words, make them up to look like something they are not.
This is one of the strange ironies - people, even the hidden ones, tend to be a bit more real on Hive, because that is what gets rewarded consistently. Of course, there are plenty who try to game the system - but that is what downvotes are for.