Will you be in a dragon boat paddling too?
Joint custody can be hard in some ways, but if the relationship of the parents is amicable, it can also be okay for the child. As the electrician said the other day who has recently broken up - two happy homes are better than one sad.
An Asian friend I met here invited us to be part of the crew. It's not a competition, it's multicultural living. I liked the idea of separating two marriages that in the end are now happy, rather than ending up with a sad one…