This tiny hesitation, switching thin to fat, shows how deeply the language of judgment is wired into us. Choosing socially acceptable words.
Yes, we are made to feel bad for using some words, while not others. But, they are just words, just sounds. Should they carry so much weight? Perhaps there is a pun in there ;)
And, I believe, those who say 'looks don't matter' are the one most worried about it.
Yep. Their behaviours give them away.