I had a similar discussion with a friend today, he told me that the symbol of the law is black and white, meaning that the law is blind and does not pay respect to anyone, everyone has to abide to it. I think that is how we should treat people, with respect and love not regarding their social status or whatever they have. But it's not like that in many environment, like in my own environment the rich and affluent in the society is accorded all respect and sometimes the law is structured to favour them or even omitted because of them.
Which is not good because we are humans and deserve to be respected and also respect others.
As for Smallsteps, she'll do perfectly fine. You already know what kind of adjustments she need and I trust that you're going to guide her very well.
It is definitely something I have to work on.
The problem with the law example is that some people believe they are "above the law" and based on their wealth or status, it is too often true. A lot of people believe that for some reason, they are special and deserve special treatment because of it.