Greetings everyone😃😃... My name is Vreeyor1 and this is my Introductory post into this community. I hope you take me and one of your one and shower me with live and engagement on each of my every post. Thank youuu
I actually dont know what to write. Scratch that, I don't know how to write down the thoughts that are in my head into proper words. Everything feels loud, too many thoughts clashing at once, leaving my mind buzzing and restless. Is it the fear that time is running out, or is it the quiet disappointment of realising that at twenty, I have not achieved most of the things I planned I would have achieved by this age? I keep wondering where this feeling comes from. I try not to compare myself with people who seem to be making it big or finding their way so early in life. I know, comparison is dangerous, if given a little attention can slowly consume you and distort your perspective about life, stealing your joy and turning your life into something that feels inadequate
Accepting the fact that we all walk different paths is essential because not all fingers are equal. Believe it or not, one of your childhood friends or someone you know might hit a jackpot and become richer than you, even wealthier than you. There is a strong chance of occurrence if you really think about it. But their success does not cancel out my own journey. Life is not a race with a single finish line; it is a collection of timelines, each unfolding at its own pace. What looks like a delay may simply be preparation. What feels like stagnation may be quiet growth
We see people in their old age still stressing about life, still struggling to manage what should have been settled long ago. We shake our heads at the sight not out of judgment, but fear because we dont want to suffer at that age. We want our lives to be settled by then. We want retirement plans in place, enough comfort to rest without worry. We imagine growing old with peace, travelling when we choose, enjoying life slowly and having access to the best healthcare suited for that stage of life.
I guess, whatever i was or am thinking about life is an extension about waht i want from it. No one truly wants to live a life filled with suffering and believes that is how life is supposed to be. We all want a stress-free life, a soft life and knowing that putting the work in early will carry us forward day by day towards the life we envision for ourselves
And maybe that hope is not naive, maybe it is necessary.