Receive a warm greeting to all members of this beautiful community of Holos & Lotus, which invites us to reflect on our being; reading the articles that are published here I came across a topic that caught my attention from the friend @rosahidalgo who encourages us to talk about the habits that make a couple stay together; so I'm going to talk from my experience with my partner, which is very different from me in many facets and personality, but I think that complements us, adding a point in our favour, in that I believe that a relationship should be based on being useful in each other's lives.
Reciban un caluroso saludo a todos los miembros de esta hermosa comunidad de Holos & Lotus la cual nos invita a reflexionar sobre nuestro ser; leyendo los artículos que aquí se publican me topé con un tema que me llamo mucho la atención de la amiga @rosahidalgo quien nos alienta a hablar sobre los hábitos que hacen que una pareja se mantenga unida; por lo que les voy a hablar desde mi experiencia con mi compañero, el cual es muy diferente a mí en muchas facetas y personalidad, pero considero que eso nos complementa, sumando un punto a nuestro favor, en eso considero que se debe basar una relación en ser útiles en la vida del otro.
One of the things that a couple living together has in their favour is the time they share, getting to know your partner on a daily basis, their tastes, their moods, what they dislike, and what they enjoy the most, is an advantage that you have to know how to take advantage of, the idea is to please each other and make your life as a couple more bearable.
Una de las cosas que tiene a su favor una pareja que vive junta es el tiempo que comparten, conocer a tu pareja en la cotidianidad, sus gustos, su humor, que le disgusta, y que más disfruta, es una ventaja que hay que saber aprovechar, la idea es complacerse mutuamente y hacer de su vida en pareja más llevadera.
Preparing breakfast, I tell you that my partner always gets up before me, he is a very light sleeper, and he is the one who prepares breakfast, that pleases us all, because when I get up I get everything ready in the kitchen.
Preparar el desayuno, les cuento que mi pareja siempre se levanta primero que yo, él tiene el sueño muy ligero y es quien prepara el desayuno, eso a todos nos agrada, ya que cuando me levanto consigo todo listo en la cocina.
Take a cup of coffee without asking for it, In the afternoons we usually prepare coffee, and one of the things we do is that whoever is not busy prepares it and offers it to the other without having to ask for it, that coffee goes wonderfully well in the afternoons, while we work at the computer.
Leaving notes on the bathroom mirror, although it sounds a little corny, I usually leave a romantic note on the mirror after I take a bath that he can read when he comes in to take a shower.
Waiting for each other to sleep together, it's a habit we have of not going to bed alone.
Llevarnos una taza de café sin pedirlo, en las tardes acostumbramos a preparar café, y una de las cosas que hacemos es quien esté desocupado lo prepara y le ofrece al otro sin necesidad de pedirlo, ese café cae maravillosamente bien en las tardes, mientras trabajamos en la computadora.
Dejar notas en el espejo del baño, aunque suene un poco cursi, yo acostumbro después de bañarme dejar cualquier nota romántica en el espejo que él pueda leer cuando entre a ducharse.
Esperar al otro para dormir juntos, es un hábito que tenemos de no ir solos a la cama.
Ask for an opinion when buying something, most of the time we go shopping together, and we like to ask each other's opinion about an item we want to buy, from a piece of clothing to something for the house, each other's opinion is always valued.
Exercising together, we enjoy cycling and jogging together and with our children.
Giving each other massages, when we have a tiring day.
Pedir opinión al momento comprar algo, la mayoría del tiempo salimos juntos de compras y nos gusta pedirnos opinión sobre algún artículo que deseamos comprar, desde una prenda de vestir, como algo para la casa, la opinión del otro siempre es valorada.
Hacer ejercicios juntos, disfrutamos mucho correr bicicleta y salir a trotar juntos y con nuestros hijos.
Darnos masajes mutuamente, cuando tenemos un día agotador.
Each of these actions and daily practices make your relationship stronger, the partner more than a sexual partner should also be the one who listens to you, who gives you advice, who protects you when you feel afraid, who shows you affection, and with whom you can count on unconditionally in any situation you go through, that is a partner worth keeping, until a new opportunity, wishing you that your relationship is also based on considerations and signs of affection that make you feel special in your life, until a new opportunity.
Each of these actions and daily practices make your relationship stronger, the partner more than a sexual partner should also be the one who listens to you, who gives you advice, who protects you when you feel afraid, who shows you affection, and with whom you can count on unconditionally in any situation you go through, that is a partner worth keeping, until a new opportunity, wishing you that your relationship is also based on considerations and signs of affection that make you feel special in your life, until a new opportunity.
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Bravooo... Una pareja muy evolucionada, de esas que se sostienen todos los días. @luzscarllet18 gracias por esa participación
Muchas gracias amiga valoro mucho tu comentario ❤️ excelente tema para hablar👏 feliz que lo hayas traído a la comunidad ☺️ Saludos ✨
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Que bonito es que compartan esas rutinas juntos
Muchas gracias amiga, nos consentimos mutuamente ☺️
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Excelente que consentidor se ganó un abrazo virtual, pequeños detalles que marcan la diferencia, les felicito que siga. Así mucho amor para ustedes