Decisions are one of those particular aspects in our lives that definitely have a very big impact on everything that we do, and that is what makes them so important. There are going to be many such factors that are going to play a massive role to be influencing influencing the decision-making that we are going to go through.
One of the biggest influences that happens to be existing in terms of making decisions is obviously going to be the emotions that we carry and among them one of the most heaviest emotion that we definitely happen to always have within our own self is going to be Nostalgia itself which is always going to be around even if we are not remembering it because it is just waiting to be triggered and once it does it is definitely going to be coming back in such a fast pace that it will surely have a very deep impact on us.
Nostalgia as we see it is definitely very comforting for us because it is filled with the memories that we do enjoy and the experiences that we had in the past which we do miss in the present and just to be able to cherish all of those memories again we do like to have them in our mind somewhere and that is what Nostalgia is all about which we think it to be but at the same time on many occasions nostalgia becomes the particular Factor against growth.
There is a particular sense of feeling within our own self that we want to be sticking to what we always used to be and don't want to change anything even if it is feeling to be as if it is an obstacle to our growth we choose to just stay what we used to have and that is when it becomes a particular thing that starts to become more like a barrier than the comforting memories which we have and that is a big dilemma that we face if we want to be moving away or we just want to stick even if it comes with many consequences.
Nostalgia obviously is one of the best emotions that can have that power to hold us together because it surely is very powerful in its way and it definitely can become a problem if it happens to be a particular obstacle to something else because it can surely feel soothing to us but at the same time it is something that happened in the past and we can't really be influencing our future much based on that especially if it is coming at a very heavy cost.
But at the same time there are many such situations and many such memories which we can't really let go of and it becomes a decision that we make to just cling on to them even if it is coming at a very heavy cost which is something that we are deciding based on our own things that we have come across which is going to be the perception which we have within our own self.
One of the things that definitely pulls us back before moving ahead in terms of nostalgia is definitely going to be the fear that we carry which is going to be about the fact that we might be letting go of something very precious to us which can be our Identity or just moving into something that we have never known and just making our distance increased with what we previously had and that is something which please in our mind before making such decisions but at the same time we slowly move ahead.
The things that we have in our Nostalgia often becomes our own identity because we continue to be what we used to be and never really want to discover something else and that is something which comes to us in a very natural manner because one of the biggest attachments that we have in our life is definitely going to be with our past self and we don't really want to become two different than what we used to be especially if certain experiences are attached with it which is why we often find ourselves romanticizing our own self in the past because it's not only feels safe but there is a certain kind of comfort that we get to experience but just remembering those days.
However we need to be very careful about all of that because Nostalgia can definitely become a very big obstacle and sometimes even if it is obvious we are never going to be recognizing it because surely is very powerful for us and it can definitely influence our decision making to a very big extent as we might be stuck in a particular place just because it used to be very much amazing in the beginning however it is not the same right now which we can actually think about any kind of job opportunity that we have or even a relationship as well.
The biggest issue that we have with Nostalgia and completely moving away from it is going to be about the fact that we definitely feel that it means to just completely forget whatever happened in the past because in reality that is never going to be a case that can ever happen but at the same time what we need to realize is going to be about the fact that we should be accepting whatever happened and just moving on from it regardless of the things that pull us back because it surely is always going to pull us back but we are going to be the decision maker in that situation if we are going to let it affect us or just continue marching ahead.
One of the things that we always need to keep in mind is going to be about the fact that Nostalgia is surely a very powerful feeling that can make us feel many such things that will obviously be very comforting to us but it is only going to become a problem if it becomes a reason that we are not doing something or it is actually becoming an obstacle to our growth in some or the other way and that is something which we should only try to ensure that it never becomes a particular thing in that way.
Ultimately it comes down to us about how we are managing it and the decisions that we are making because it is going to be done by us if we are just trying to cling on to the past and letting our future get affected because of it or just accepting whatever happened and trying new things and freshly discovering them without having anything to think about rather than actually completely forgetting about whatever happened in the past. After all, whatever we choose, the things that are going to happen are going to happen anyway.
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