The Silent Fear Behind Our Need for the Perfect Time

in FreeCompliments13 days ago

One of the things that we always chase in our life is going to be truth itself because it is a certain kind of comfort that we feel we are going to be receiving once we are actually having the truth write in front of her and we always have that feeling within our own self let the world is definitely going to be feeling a lot for better if we are knowing the truth because it just feels right to be knowing what really happened.

pexels-ray-torres-624980841-34837809.jpg
source

But at the same time there are many such truths that we definitely run away from and we are avoiding them as if we know that it is something that is definitely going to bother if you are going to be coming face to face with it and just because of that we are actually meeting difficult true to stay in existence and the definitely are very much happy for us to carry and that is definitely one of the reason why we always try to stay in the elevation of not knowing it.

There are many such Harsh truth that are always going to be existing in everyone's life but at the same time there are many such Universal hard truth that are existing as well and among them one of the most biggest one or definitely the one that does influences our life to a very weak extent is definitely going to be the mind set of waiting for the right moment.

It is a kind of mindset that we all it definitely believe in quite a lot is about going to be the fact that there is going to be a right moment when we have to be acting or there will be a right time when we have to be giving in the effort and till then we just have to be waiting for it and in that particular pain which just keep on delaying something that we could have done and this becomes a big trap that we find ourselves in just because we are waiting for things to get better or just the conditions are going to be perfect for us to be start doing what we want to.

pexels-serkangoktay-90639.jpg
source

In reality it is just an illusion that has developed in our mindset because we are always going to be waiting for that right moment to do every single one of those things because right from out childhood we are always said to wait for something to happen when we are having that particular feeling which is going to make a steel right to do that particular thing and that has definitely pulled as back on many occasions because it becomes not yet for most of the time and slowly it convert into never.

The worst thing that we keep on doing is to be just waiting for the moment that we start fitting safe and that is actually making us delay everything to a very big extend because it is only going to be decided by us about how we are going to be creating that chance rather than actually waiting for that chance to start been into existence on its own as it is never going to be the perfect moment that we are looking forward to but it is going to be our efforts that is going to be making that imperfect moment work out.

On many occasions in our life window try to send a particular condition before doing something as like we are always feeling that when we are going to be a little less busy or we are going to be starting to do this particular thing and similarly there are many such conditions that we put our ownself which makes us just feel that we are having some reason that is actually letting as not do that particular thing and that point of time but in reality it is as who is trying to avoid that situation and giving it another name.

pexels-pixabay-258356.jpg
source

A lot of people do call it as been patient because it is also quite necessary in our life but at the same time we need to be actually able to distinguishing between patients and fear because just for the name of patience we are trying to tell our ownself that we are just getting ready to do it and it is definitely going to be taking a bit of more time as we don't want to rush it but at the same time it is actually the fear of losing or embarrassment or something else that is pulling as back which is something that we need to realize.

There are many reasons why people actually just want to wait for the right time as some way say that they are waiting to get more clarity about the situation and it is also something that surely is not really actually the case because we are only going to be making that clarity exist in our life if we are exploring things that other than waiting for it because our own action is going to be the reason be has more clarity other than just waiting for things to happen which is never really going to be giving us that clarity which we are waiting for.

Whatever progress that we want to make in our life it is never going to be coming if we are doing nothing and we have to be start taking actions even if it is not the perfect moment that we are waiting for because it will only we arriving if we are actually giving in those efforts and not just waiting for it because we have to be doing it my own action rather than the perfect timing that we are waiting for.

Ultimately we have to realise the fact that the right timing might not be something that even exist because it is going to be our own action that is going to be deciding everything right from the start and if we are uncertain to do something just waiting for something to happen then we should actually start at that very moment because one is not doing things we are going to be getting a lot more clarity and that is also going to be minimise in the field that we are feeling and ultimately we are going to be feeling better once we are involved in it rather than just waiting for it.


Thanks For Reading My Article
I Hope you liked it

FreeCrypto

Posted Using INLEO

Sort:  

Congratulations @freecrypto! You received a personal badge!

Happy Hive Birthday! You are on the Hive blockchain for 9 years!

You can view your badges on your board and compare yourself to others in the Ranking

Thanks guys !

Woo-hoo! Your commitment to Hive is truly inspiring. Keep going, you're crushing it @freecrypto!