So today's topic is building self-confidence after failure. There definitely comes a time in everyone's life when we have to face failure, or we are doing something with great intensity or hard work, but we do not get the result of that thing, and then our confidence fails in this. Not at all. What kind of thing is it that makes you think that after this you will definitely get success? You always have to think that when one mistake, one setback, and one injection shake all our hard work and belief, the only thing that happens is that we have to show everyone in that situation that our confidence has not become new at all, and this is also right: never lose your confidence, no matter what happens to it.
Failure is never a gate. It is an invitation. For your future successful life, whenever you feel something, then you understand why you failed in that thing and where you made mistakes, and that is why everyone has said that there is something that will make you understand that it is your mistake, and then when you correct that mistake and stand up again, then you will definitely get success in it. Whether you understand this thing today or not, you have to have confidence today. You have to rebuild that thing, and you have to change the actual turning point of your life, and you have to go much ahead in your life. Therefore, always look at failure as a success.
Whenever you fail at something, the first thing that breaks is your belief. You think that you were absolutely capable of that thing, and perhaps it was your wrong choice that you can achieve that thing, and that is the time when your confidence is valued, but I believe that if you treat that failure as a success, then you will be able to do better at it. Whenever you fail, you should celebrate it by saying, "Okay, I failed, but after I failed, I realized that I had made a mistake here." Then there is always that teacher of yours who makes you understand that mistakes happen and they can be corrected.
People always think that when someone fails, they end their career or stop drinking. But all the successful people in life, be it Steve Jobs, APJ Abdul Kalam, Mary Kom, or Michael Jordano, all of them have one thing in common: they failed before. Successful people always failed. They faced a lot of insults in life. They faced a lot of problems in life. They used to laugh at them while walking on the road. But those people remained silent, and they learned that if I answer now, they will think that I have tried to answer everyone after failing. So never think that you are a fool; it means that in the meantime you will not be able to see any success.
Shakti, if you face such a feeling, you must do one thing. Sometimes, make a comeback at something, even if it's a small one. Celebrate it because it will boost your confidence, and this confidence building happens step by step. It doesn't happen overnight. And there are many things you can do to build confidence, like taking walks every day. If you don't speak English well, speak English for 20 to 25 minutes every day. If you have too much fat in your body or you are too potty, then you should exercise daily. What will happen with this is that you will feel that you have gained confidence every day, you will look at yourself in the mirror, and you will see if you have changed. Whether it is visible or not, you will feel in your mind that you have changed, and this is what everyone needs: that you feel that you are changing and you become a little more confident about your life.
The biggest enemy of competence is negative self-talk. Negative self-talk means that you start to have false hopes or become such a negative person that you think, "I'm useless. I don't know anything. I can't do anything in life. Whatever I do, it will be a failure." But all this is natural, and it's all a big deal. But you have to stop overthinking it because if you keep repeating it, a negative thought will come to your mind that you can't do anything. If this thought comes to your mind, you'll feel like you can't do anything. Therefore, after that, you'll never even try. Therefore, never look at yourself negatively. See yourself as confident, and no matter what happens in life, never tell yourself that you've failed. No human being can ever fail.
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